I just recently got into the game and joined these forums. I personally love Style's Cube Game and believe it to be great in-field.

I want to start a thread of games that we can come up with that will add to our repertoire of fun games to play with HB's.

HB's love when these games are played on them, and their friend will immediately want a game played on them after their friend's enjoyment. Instead of potentially losing the target while playing the cube game on the obstacle, I figured we could then add psychological games to escalate the interaction of the set.

I will post my new game in the next following post

The Tropical Rainforest Game

"This game will help show your sexual desire for men."

Me: "You and a tour guide are on an adventure into a wild rainforest. The tour guide points you in the direction of the wild forest."

Pause

Me: "Within this wild forest lay vast amounts of fruits and berries."

Pause

Me: "Your tour guide tells you that a lot of the berries within the forest will taste good, but there is one located within this forest that is infinitely better than the others. The only problem, the guide says, is that it will take a lot longer to find. We can continue to find this elusive berry or you could start eating berries right now."

-"What gender was your tour guide?"
-"How close was the forest in your imagination?"
-"How many berries were you able to see?"
-"Were there variations to the berries or were they all the same?"
-"Did you pursue the elusive berry or did you resist temptation and start eating right away?"

Tour guide= her mentor
Forest= Her loved one
Berries= guys in society

male tour guide - male influence from father or god or good conscious
female tour guide - female influence in her life
if she follows the tour guide, you could add that her influence is very strong to her core beliefs/values

close forest within picture - close to finding the right one
forest is far away - not yet found loved one, but still within reach

a lot of berries - a lot of guys pursuing her in her life
a few berries - a few guys are actively pursuing her in her life
variation to berries - guys she notices aren't all the same and have distinctive qualities
no variation to berries - all guys are similar in her eyes and she can't quite find one that sticks out


The objective: If she does say that she will go for the elusive berry then you respond with the fact that she is waiting for the right guy to come along and not wasting time on all the (bland) or other berries that aren't meeting her qualifications.

If she says that she started eating the berries right away, then you can say she is playing the field carefully and hoping to find qualities in all of them that will help lead her to the right man in her life.


This is just a rough draft. Any alterations, comments, or feedback would be appreciated. Hopefully this game will work in-field. It is not field tested yet, but should be as effective as the cube game. I think this thread will be great to start implementing different psychological games into different parts of the PU.

This is a good one. I tested this tonight and it worked approx 70%.
She said it was fun, so I will be using it, thanks bro!

good to hear man. since i haven't field tested it yet, do you think there is any way to make it better?

Where did it kinda go wrong for the girl?

male tour guide - she said she imagined a handsome guy like young Indiana Jones guiding her through the forrest;-) So, the influence from her father didn't work this time. I am not sure if this should be improved, yet we need to use this routine for a while to see if this is the best interpretation:-) cheers!

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good to hear. i was afraid of referencing family influences for the tour guide. some girls didn't care for their fathers, but envision the tour guide as male...so the conversation could get ugly in that instance

Good thread. Games are useful in a lot of social situations. They bypass so many resistances people have and get them to try new things. It's almost like stepping them into an alternate world for a while where they have permission to be fun and playful and innovative in a way they normally would not. It also basically demands engagement rather than passive intake.

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