Hey guys,

This is my second part post on how to win my ex back. I am currently seeing and dating other girls, but I do want to prove to myself as well as the world that I CAN get out of her friendzone.

I believe a part of why we broke up was that I was being too beta, as well as her "special someone" (a guy who hooks up with her in a long distance thing) most likely using the BF destroyer on myself. We "broke up" a few couple weeks ago, but she still wants to be friends. I plan on visiting her for a weekend, and I intend on pulling all the strings. I am prepping for the weekend, however I need some help on dealing with this other guy.

I am fairly confident that he knows what he is doing, and is more experienced than myself, as he leads her on and tells her it will never work between them, causing her attraction to skyrocket for him. So in creating a "straw man" on his personality with her, how exactly would I do this in order to counter his attacks on myself?

Also, I realize I probably should not bring this up with her, but if it comes up I will create the illusion on his part (however countering a BFDestroyer tactic works).

Any advice would be appreciated.

PS: for the record, I am going to go hardcore on kino and push-pull, all the while playing it cool like I lost attraction but am DTF... This seems like the most effective tactic

You're looking for trouble...

So you're suggesting I not bring it up at all?

Im not professional with relationship. In my philosophy its all just bullshit. Girls wants a boyfriend so they can Fuck with him all the time without their girlfriends calls her a slut if she did it to a random.

Act chill.
Be dominant
Be funny
Be the leader

Be the guy everyone wants to be around and
the girls will break up with their boyfriends to
have a chance with you.

If you just are enjoying your self and having a good
time. The day the girl is breaking up with her
boyfriend is the day she's hitting on you.

Girls are always looking for a better boyfriend
show her that your cooler than her boyfriend.

Flirt with everyone, have good conversations with all
show love to everyone. Be the most social guy in the
whole school.

You will start to feel better with your self after all
This gets accomplished..

Copy that,
thanks again

I suggest moving on friend , she obviously already has a fixed image of you and all your qualities inside her head. It will be hard to change what has already been done.

When it's game over , just reset with someone new.

But...if you're really crazy about this girl then you're gonna have to game her from the start :

I wouldn't suggest going to visit her. Let her come visit you.

1. Stop chasing her.
2. Tell her you just want to be friends.(I know you don't want to because you're scared of getting friend-zoned , but just do it.)
3. Let her hang out with you and some friends or go out together. (Just as buddies)
4. While you're hanging with her you DHV in front of the whole group. (She'll then realize what she's lost)
5. Simultaneously Displaying A LOT disinterest towards her (Just ignore her)
6. *Very Important* Use a jealousy plotline to make her jealous. (Just game another chick)

You have to make sure you display disinterest towards her , she has to realize you're truly not interested in her anymore otherwise your jealousy tactic wont work and she'll just be less attracted. At this moment she knows you want her back. You're gonna have to change the tides and make her chase you.

-ONLY THEN WILL YOU TRULY HAVE ATTRACTION FROM HER.

The best way to destroy the other guy is to just forget about him , never speak of him , never refer to him... just forget about him and game naturally.

- Happy gaming

- Energetica

BF destroyers when well done can be a bitch to recover from as the girl "knows" what's happening in the Alpha Beta dynamic. The best way to frame it is to set the interaction as the other guy being gay and he's actually after you not her and thats why he's trying to reduce the attraction between you and your GF.

Just berate your GF for her lack of social acuman for not realising what was happening when "everybody else knew" then say "us guys know straight away whats happening, I thought you'd realised"