I've had this problem a few times in the last few girls I've sarged. These 4 particular girls are HB10 material. Its funny, I always isolate them, DHV, build attraction and I used to never not close with a lay. The problem lately is that I always kiss close, but the girls get to know me, the first day and always have an excuse like, "I just met you, this is all too real, I like you too much. I cant see you." Now, i've tried all LRM combatants and nothing has seemed to work effectively. These girls like me so much that they cant see me for fear of liking me and what they might do. Just now, I met this girl monday, on new years, while i was standing in line, she came up to me and started talking to me, followed me around at this concert, and begged me to hangout iwth her. I did, I ended up kiss closing her, despite her LMR when it came to kissing.

Now her situation is that she just broke up with her fiance to be with this other guy who lives 9 hours away. She feels its wrong that we hook up. I've used boyfriend destroyers, I've built rapport to establish trust and all are successful. But this girl leaves tonight because she like sme too much and I know its going to be next to impossible to isolate her again because of this.

This is not a unique incident, its happened to me 4 times in the last like month and a half all for different cirucmstances.

Help me?

interesting situation... what i think your problem is lately is that you arent building enough comfort and kino before moving in for that kiss.. i think the girl is backing out because she either wants out (universal hb excuse), or simply because she is worried that you'll get to know her too much and go off her... my perception of this is that she just doesnt have enough confidence around her... could be because you have dhv'd to much... could also be not enough comfort and kino...

I mean I do establish the Keno, a lot of times i only have to go 10% into that kiss and they come hot and heavy the remaining 90%. Its very odd. The DHV thing is interesting and may be a good point. I know I make the girls comfortable and they trust me. Theres something about their body language that lets you know it, they melt in your arms and sigh. Im just confused all of this is happening so closely together.

ye it just seems like you came on too fast for her... and overqualified (gave her the feeling that you were way to good for her) i think you'll get more chances though.

its simple.

If you play easy to get sooner, she will play hard to get later.

If you play hard to get sooner, she will play easy to get later.

by kiss closing so soon, you are triggering her LMR.


You need to be the one resisting her advances. You are the prize. She is the one chasing you.

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