Messed up with a HB9 a few weeks ago at school. She's cute, has a smiling face, nice toned body, etc. I didn't do anything terrible, think I just rubbed her the wrong way and she was like "why is this guy talking to me?" and I was kinda in her face and too eager to talk. Whenever I went up to her after that, she seemed kinda weirded out. I didn't have a routine and basically talked in circles and acted like a beta.

Honestly, I think she's potential relationship material because she's the same sport as me (just female side) and I just get that gut feeling, so I want to give things another shot. Since then, I've read up on self-improvement and changed my behavior. What should I do next time I see her? I was thinking of starting with a neg and then working from there. But idk what to say that isn't small talk.

As you said you didn't do anything wrong. Remember that because its important. Thinking about someone you barely know as LTR material is not the way to think. If you see her again try to reopen and talk to her like you would any other girl. There are tons of openers and videos to help but I just go for the more natural approach, just don't force or rush it if the opportunity doesn't present itself.

I really don't understand you guys... I mean. I was AFC too. Very big AFC. But I always thought that I'd first want to really get to know someone before I get into a relationship with her. Just the fact she has nice body and she's doing the same sport as you... I don't know how can that be enough. At least, I have a very strict criteria for LTR material girls and most of these criteria needs weeks or sometimes months spent together for me to decide.

Well anyway you're putting a lot of unnecessary pressure on you and you're also doing a lot of unnecessary planning. I guess you want to get to know her better if you want a relationship with her so why don't you just do that? Be genuinely interested in her. That's one of the most attractive traits a man can have: Genuine interest. Ask her about the things you're curious about her. Be fun. Throw in a few sexual jokes and see how she reacts to them. But don't just plan on the interaction because you'll get stuck like you're now. Contrary to popular belief, there is no flawless script to follow. Good Luck!

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