This is some new material I came up with and field tested, its use is as follows: setting a dating/romantic frame.

When to use it: Defriend zone, after BF destroying, during indirect game


I personally only have used it after BF destroying; I use the type of BF destroying advocated by TD which incorporates reframing the boy friends behavior in the relationship to seem beta without making it seem like you are directly insulting him.

When a sufficient amount of compliance is built, simply tell the girl you want a picture with her. If she asks why you want a picture of her, then you haven't established enough rapport/compliance with her yet and asking will be a DLV in of itself. Ask a nearby (preferably older) person to take a picture of the two of you, then when posing for the picture, put your arm around the girl and smile. 90% of the time they will comment "You two make a cute couple"- or something to that effect. This is the entire point of the technique because after BF destroying (or while friend zoned as well I suppose, but I never been friend zoned before so idk really) you don't want to explicitly state that you are interested or else the BF destroying you did wouldn't seem genuine and it would appear that you just said it for your own motives- this technique elicits the 'romance frame' from another person, which will get the girl now screening you from that frame.


Cautions:

If asking for the picture seems in-congruent to the situation it could come off like you want the picture to brag to your friends or for some ego boost and it will be a major DLV. This happen to me only twice.

You don't always want to set the 'dating/romance frame'- this is only for certain situations like those stated above. I did it the other day after BF destroying a LTR and it worked perfectly.




"A gentlemen will not insult me, and no man not a gentlemen, can insult me"
-Frederick Douglas

Wow this is pretty nice,I like how you indirectly do a pretty good reframe .



But yeah, you have to be carefull not to DLV, or to appear to be BF destroying for you own motives.

Nice post, keep it up.

Cheers, Crix.