Hey new to the forum even though ive browsed it for a while. New to pickup as well. Wondered if anyone had any advice on my situation.

So I have a friend that ive been slowly falling for for about 2 months now. She lives across the way in my dorm and is gorgeious, funny, and smart. Everyone pines over her and shes involved with a friend of mine from down the hall. the thing is she always complains that hes dragging her down but continues to fuck him anyway. We hooked up twice a month ago in the presence of friends but it never went any further. My issue is i get rowdy, even rediculius, when i drink. People tend to like this about me and its gotten me very many friend (including her) but i fear that not only have i ruined any mystery surrounding me and who i am (i try not to wear my heart on my sleeve but I do) but that i havnt poeticized my existance properly: that ive been to open with her and have become too fimiliar. I was wondering if its simply too late to reverse this or if there are any practical routines i could use to restart a possible seduction. thanks

I'm also fairly new to the PUA world, but I'd suggest lowering her DHV by doing thing such as calling her a "Dude" while she knows you're sexual with her. Giving mixed signals is always good. If you feel she is getting comfortable with the term "Dude" switch it up. Keep giving mixed signals, eventually she'll fall for you if you have demonstrated enough DHV towards her. When she does fall for you, I'd suggest to maintain it by positioning yourself in your mindset as "THE PRIZE" and keep her chasing after you. But this is just another woman, I'd personally just go after the next one I come across, but your PU game is not mine to play.

--Simchoe--