Ok, I've been thinking about this for a long time. If we DLV the target we don't have to DHV ourselves as much, so i made this technique where you actually undermine her importance, I'm not 100% positive of this routine, so please test it out if you like it. I know negs do the job, but this makes HBs want to justify themselves to you.
this is how it goes.
me: "are you in a mood for a drink?"
HB: "no."
me: "wow... and i thought you were fun, well i guess I'm wrong."
HB: "NO no no!! I'm fun! ok, im in the mood for a drink."
me: "good, then go get me one."
and then she'll want to show you she's fun for the whole night.
But if she says yes all you should do is say "good, then go get me one."
or
me: "you in the mood for a drink?"
HB: "yea."
me: "naa you're not worth it." (be sure to smile so she doesn't take offense to that).
Hopefully she'll want to show you she's worth it by seeking your approval, and once she does, you make her buy YOU a drink
guys don't get me wrong when i say i didn't try this because I'm 15 and i can't drink. (and don't really want to drink)
another one is:
After a conversation, if you can link two topics together do that and say she's a liar about something, that will make her want to justify herself to you.
this worked for me by accident, I said to a HB that she's a liar in a c&f way in front of some other people and she automatically had to justify herself to me.
This technique is still a work in progress.
any help/corrections are appreciated. After all I'm still a newbie
-Voyrin.