Long time lurker, but this is my first time posting.


The Cube is well established gold, and as I'm already incredibly perceptive, I added it to the things I do with girls and can be really accurate.

Apparently, that can be an issue - I could use some help here. I ran the cube on this HB I ref with when after a week of flirting we were over at her place watching a movie. Night was going well, lots of kino, makeout, etc...

And then I did the cube. Some background: I have no real problem finding girls who'd pick me, but there aren't a whole lot that I'm interested in. So when I find one who's cocky, even a bit arrogant, and also athletic...it's nice.

Anyway, the cube. I ran it so accurately that she kind of freaked out. It was towards the end of the night, so there wasn't a whole lot of time after, but the SPAM was clearly different. She had a gigantic storm, it made her flowers wilt and scared the horse away, knocked the ladder over...I was pretty sure I handled it well, but then the SPAM changed. I almost felt like I had made myself a confidante instead of a potential partner.

Have any of you ever been TOO accurate with the cube routine before? Is it possible? I'm not really sure what to do. When I left I got what I feel was a sincere, "Hope we share some shifts this week," but no kiss.

Where to go from here? TIA

wow...im a huge fan of the cube, it is however a very dangerous and powerful thing. it creates long lasting attraction. if she had a storm that big, she must be under incredible pressure of somekind, or perhaps has been deceptive with you? theres more to this than meets the eye. when you find the source of the storm u will find your answer. if shes not quick to reveal it might be worth moving on. she could be near snapping point

oh the good ole cube. Be very careful with it my friend.

Basically whenever i do it i like to make the answers sound in there favor, not to dis them on any part of it what so ever, even if its bad i reassure them its good. Because the cube is suppose to bring you together and know more about her, versus the silent SPAM and drive her away...

If its something really really bad, i might even leave it out...My moms horse was running away from the cube(implying she was losing my dad, or at least thats what i think it means) so i didnt tell her, cuz that would cause a shit show in our house...

For you, you couldve reassured her that, yes this storm withered her flowers, knocker over her latter and so fourth, but that it means maybe shes ready for a new beginning. Shes tired of her old self and wants something new...maybe shes been treated like shit by every guy in the past and you are there to rebuild that foundation with her...it could also mean something deeper, ill never know..

But when a girl says she has a small cube, i play it off as like, "the small cube means you, you might be insecure, but your still open to peoples beliefs" basically you sugar coat the answer to her liking...

The only steps i have for you now are to find out what it meant and rebuild from there. If he really hit her that hard, then maybe she has trust issues and its time to move on..

good luck bud

You could have framed it in a joking/friendly/positive way.
"Danm girl, when you got problems, you GOT PROBLEMS! haha. It's totally cool and speaks to your creative/passionate personality. Haven't you noticed that the most interesting people, with interesting lives, have to overcome or endure big ass storms? Small problems are boring. I much prefer disasters! Don't worry; my life is a disaster zone from time to time too.."

The point is to increase a connection and get her thinking you know her better than you do, NOT to get her all introspective about her life. So, make it light and always spin it positively. It gives you a nothing-gets-me-down attitude.

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Indulgence not compulsion.

Thanks for the replies - I should provide more info I suppose:

I think I handled it pretty well, incorporating a bit of push/pull into some of it but also connecting, but she went right into explaining about why the storm was so big, and it made a lot of sense - she had recently had a significant medical issue that was apparently cleared (I know what the thing was, I'm being vague her on purpose) up, but she has a checkup in the next week to make sure.

The rest was easy for me to surmise - most of her high school friends are engaged (too young, IMO) and she doesn't want to be but also feels left behind. I of course didn't say that, I coated it as her being more a more adventurous and independent person, which she seemed to like. I'm a decent user of the cube, I have just never run into anything as super-serious as what her problem was before and it kind of caught me off guard. I became a little more comforting and less playful - I can only assume that was a mistake, but was it a fatal one?


I'll see her during the week either tomorrow or Thursday since we both ref some of the IM games, so I guess what I should do now is be prepared for something...Do I text between now and then, or do I wait and see? Am I done, or is me knowing as much as I do about her actually something that will build more comfort like I'm used to the cube doing?