One of my sticking points is that I have a hard time creating sexual tension. On another thread I saw that someone suggested asking a girl advice about another girl/relationship/date in order to show that you are pre-selected and possibly create some jealousy and attraction.
A little background, there are a couple girls that I have been chatting up in class (one in each class) that are friendly with me and talk to me in class but I'm worried about getting friendzoned. Again, the goal here is to DHV, and create sexual tension, attraction, and possibly some jealousy. I haven't overtly conveyed interest with either of them yet, I feel like I want to create more attraction first and then qualify them. Basically, here's the routine that I'm thinking of using:
Her: "What's new?/How was your weekend/Something small-talkish?"
Me: "Actually, it was kind of interesting. Let me get your opinion on something. I was at the Abbey for open mic last week and I started talking to this girl. Anyway, she's cute and about my height and kind of quirky and really confident and I can tell that she's kind of attracted to me so everything's going good, right? Then she tells me that she's already in an open relationship with another guy. Now on my end I am fine with it, I'm not the jealous type and certainly not the type to judge. Yet I'm still a little hesitant to pursue this too far. I don't want some guy trying to kick my ass for dating his g/f, you know? Anyway, I've got a date with this girl tomorrow for dinner. What do you think?"
Something like that. I'm thinking whatever her response is will also help me find out how she feels about open relationships (good info to have) and if she's interested in me she's likely to tip her hand, right?
Btw, this story is mostly true. I do actually have a date with the open-relationship girl on Tuesday. I want to use this at class on Monday.
I'm looking for feedback on the routine and pointers from you experienced guys that have used this type of tactic before. My AFC brain is screaming that this road is littered with landmines, I just need you guys to help me dodge them.