Hey guys,

First off im kinda new to the whole PUA scene, but I think im a fast learner

I transfered to this new University, and the fun thing is, no one knows u in the beginning. I never got that much action w/ chicks, but before I transfered in I read David DeAngelo and Neil Strauss. From the beginning i acted C&F, and now I have ''good'' reputation: everyone seems to think I get soo many chicks! Unbelievable this stuff....

Anyway, in my class theres this HB8.5 Around her I always act layed back, cool, and neg her the whole time. Now I saw her in this bar, and played the 5 questions game. It didnt work that well actually, don't think she really got the point....

At this time shes constantly laughing at my jokes and attitude, and shes calling me a ''loser'' in a playful way. But is that good or bad? When do I know if i have to stop negging? I think im kinda overdoing it. PLz some advice needed, i reaaaaally wanna k-close this one!

Hey Live,

Well I think that your definately on the right track in terms of social proof.

Dont neg her so much though, a neg is a "negative compliment". Its used to show that your getting laid, and kind of disqualify you as a potential suitor. You don't want to over-do it with the negs because then you will be looked upon as a jerk, or she will just think your wierd if you neg her like 10 times.

I think you should try something like pick a number between 1 and 10. Also throw ina few DHV stories.

Next time you see her neg her once at the begining and dont neg again. I think that if you neg her to much she'll think your an a-hole.

Also, her calling you a loser in a playful way is a IOI imo.

Thanks dude! I'll definately give it a try next time I see her. But u think games and stuff like "pick a number between 1 and 10" work in the classroom? Arent those games better when ur at a bar or someting?

Also, she was showing her ex-boyfriends to me on facebook, without me asking about the dude. When I was browsing my facebook she looked over my shoulder and asked "Are that all ur previous girlfriends??" U think I should build up kino aswell? And she showed me a blog she wrote on the 3 things her boyfriend must be: - sweet - goodlooking - interesting
Again, I didnt even ask

Dude, here's the translation:

She sees you as boyfriend material, thus showing you qualities in a man that she is seeking. Notice it's her ex, meaning she's practically screaming to you that SHE'S AVAILABLE!!!!!

Do not neg her constantly, in fact from now on only neg her twice every meeting, and only if you feel it is right or you just can't resist. If you go overboard on the negs, you will come off as a jerk.

You are at what PUA's call the A3 stage right now: you must get her to qualify herself to you. So the next time you see her, tell her this:

"You know, I was thinking about that blog you wrote. First let me tell you that you're pretty, but then again there are lots of pretty girls on campus. What other qualities do you think you have that might attract such a sweet, handsome young man (point to yourself in a cocky funny way, with a slight smile on your face) around here?"

Once she lists those three things, briefly talk about each one, nod approvingly and indicate your approval verbally by looking her in the eye and telling her that you've noticed and appreciate those qualities.

You are now set to either set up another meeting (e.g. date or fun activity, preferably fun activity) where you can build comfort with her, or bounce her to another location...say the campus museum. I'm not going to take you all the way, but feel free to check the material on these boards on how to proceed from C1 all the way to S3. If you see her as girlfriend material, then take it slow. Escalate the kino (aka holding hands, arm in arm, hugging, kissing, making out briefly), but try to meet her at 5 or 6 different venues before you get into her pants.

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