| I have a DHV story that I've realized could be quite powerful, as well as a good female opinion question. However, its quite dark, and Im wondering when the right time to use it in an interaction would be, if I use it at all.
Basically, I was staying with my best mates girlfriend (DHV, implies I'm trusted and loyal to friends) and we went out clubbing with a few of her friends (all girls.) At some point during the night, someone spiked her drink, and when she texted her friends to tell them that she thought this had happened (it was medically confirmed that she was) none of them paid any attention to her, and instead hung around with a group of guys they had met and hooked up with, and one of them even took a guy back to her house and slept with him in the spare room.
I looked after her for a while, and called her father and we got her home safely.
The next day, her friends were extremely apologetic about leaving her etc etc and the way I would phrase it if using it, would be, should she trust them and still hang out with them, or have they shown their true colors.
Now this could be a DHV in that it shows very clearly that I am a protector of loved ones, but seeing as the story is quite dark, it could very easily kill a playful mood and possibly bring up bad experiences from a girls past.
Anyone have a way that this story/opinion opener could be used successfully? I imagine during a comfort building phase, probably not as an opener as such, but more an opinion during a conversation.
The reason I realised it was such a good DHV, is that one of her friends, I had tried to go for several times during the night had soundly rebuffed me. But after this, she has been messaging me saying what an amazing guy I am, and how she really wants to see me again etc etc (which I dont, but I still realise that what I did was a DHV)
I also worry if using this story is almost a little unethical, and exploitative of the situation, and not something I should use in good conscience.
Any thoughts?
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