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The most important thing is to be congruent with your DHV story. Because if your not, chicks are natural bullshitters and will smell yours before you have the chance to finish.
As an example, follow this:
Pick something you either do really well, or something you want to do that is ambitious.
In this case we'll say that you are really good at poetry. Not tough guy, but something to be proud of nontheless and sometimes you can show your not always this super Alpha being. You'd craft a personal DHV story like this.
So I was reading some poetry at this coffee shop downtown like last month. People were really getting into to, and they loved it when I read my stuff (1). I decided to bring some of my friends along to show them this place (2), and a couple of them were some good looking girls (3). So of course, at a coffee shop, you just know there girls are going to get hit on by every slimy creepy guy there (4). This one guy though, like he wouldn't leave my friend /Michelle/ alone, and she kept giving me these looks. So right while I'm up performing in front of everybody, I stop my poem and go, "Dude, I don't think she is buying whatever you're selling..."(5). Everyone stops and looks at him and he walks off into the back of the shop. My friends cheered me (2) because they knew I day saved the day(5).
While maybe only 20% of this story might be true, its based enough in factual events that will lead to you being able to tell it without stuttering through it or seeming like your lying. Where I put numbers are the parts that are demonstrating value. The legend is as follows:
1-social proof
2-leader of peers
3-preselection
4-demonstrates you know social dynamics, that your popular. social proof AND preselection
5-protector of loved ones
You can make similiar examples out of anything. If your looking for a guru who specializes in this, look into Speer.
+ my rep now please...haha
This is such a great example, i've seen videos of mystery explaining all of that and never quite knew what he ment by it all, the protctor of love ones and such.... really good post