Hi
So I was in a realtionship with this HB 9.5 for 4 months than I broke up with her 1 month ago (she cheated on me for sure but she denies it). We've been meeting and having sex once a week since that. On thursday I asked her if she wanted to meet during the weekend, she said no. Now today she wanted to SPAM chit chat with me and again I offered her that we could go out on tomorrow and she could sleep at my place. She was like "I'm not sure" "I don't know where this leads" blah blah... She's obviously gaming/seeing others too (I heard that from others). I told her that I had to leave so I quit.

Now at 11pm she sends me this text message "hmmm good night".

I really don't think I should reply to this one. But how do I reason it? What do I say if tomorrow she asks why I didn't reply?? I also wanna make her change her mind so she would want to meet me again.

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"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."
Wayne Gretzky

Thanks a lot! This worked like a charm! All I did was that I asked a hot female friend of mine to invite me to a party on my facebook wall (fake post btw), and I replied her something flirty and that I would surely be there.

Few hours after this my ex texts me some angry shit. This was yesterday.

And today now as I'm writing this post, my ex and I are chatting on SPAM:
HER: so what do you expect from me?
ME: I don't expect anything from you... it's all written in the skies anyway...
HER: ok, so do you want me to cook dinner for you on Saturday?

This might be a bit of a oneitis but I'm gaming other girls too, so nothing serious. I will keep you guys posted.

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"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."
Wayne Gretzky

Yeah dude, you're doing great. When you run into situations like that, and you don't answer her text or whatever, don't worry about what she's going to do. Just proceed with your life without thinking about the choice, especially don't regret it. Everything works itself out if you're in the moment to see it.