Alright, so here's the low down. I'm kinda new to this pua stuff but it sounds pretty cool so imma give it a shot.. Other than my boring retail job, I'm also a DJ. This past weekend I did a college house party and wow it was fun. Met a lot of new people and made some $.. Well I met this girl down there (hb8) and to me we set it off prety well.. I was introduced to her by a friend of mine that I knew and we chatted a few while I was setting up my equipment. Now I could tell she was drunk cuz she seemed a little to crazy so that made me laugh and I cracked some jokes here and there... so as the night progresses I'm pretty much surrounded by people, mostly girls just watching me spin vinyls and doin some mixing.. Most were impressed and I could tell cuz they never stopped dancing and people were giving me props on what I was doing. Well other than all that stuff that girl I met before the who party came back and hung out with me a lil behind the dj booth. We had some god conversations, danced a bit together, and escalted kino as u guys would say. I kind of kno she was into me by the looks she was giving across the room and I kno I could have gotten farther but I was busy doing my job keeping the party going. Well later on the cops came and busted the party and everyone pretty much dipped including her. Now I thought I would never seen her again but surprisingly I get a friend request online from her and I joke around with her saying oh wow u still remember me, crazy ass night huh.
She goes with a reply saying "duhh ur my boyfriend, how could I forget you? Can we hangg out sooooon k thnx"

But yea I did get her number and I plan on chillin with her this comin weekend or something but I was wondering what is there to do? Get some food? Watch a movie? Idk give me some good ideas I don't wanna be boring lol thanks

I would probably just start with night activities. Here's how I do it on Friday:

Don't commit to any plans until early Friday night, but it is okay to let her know you want to drink out with her this weekend. Around 8:30 or 9:00pm Friday, make plans to meet up with her at a cocktail bar, or something fancy. You should figure out at least 2 more bars after this (don't tell them to her in advance), including a dance club, a lounge, and if you feel up to it, a kareoke bar. There are other places you could use also, those are just my recommendations. You don't have to go to all of the destinations, if she likes a place and wants to stay there with you, perfect! After the bars close, if you have already K-closed and you want to F-close, a good way to do it is by knowing where the best 24 hour breakfast restaurant near your house is. Ask her to come with you, and you can even make a big group event out of it if she brought friends, or you made friends that night. Don't stay at the restaurant more than an hour, you don't want her to bail on you because she's tired. Bring mint gum with you, use it between each bar and after eating. This lets her know you want to kiss. Keep a few bottled waters in your car, and use them too, but save one for the end of the night and one for her.

For day/evening activities on Saturday/Sunday:

* You could meet her at the mall, get smoothies and have her model clothes for you. This will be fun for her if she is the type of girl that likes to color coordinate all the outfits you've seen her in. Look at her myspace pictures to help figure out if it is something she would enjoy.

* You could meet at a coffee shop and suggest going to a record store. You're a dj, which obviously she's into, so she'd probably enjoy it. You would be comfortable, and have plenty to talk about, both with her and the other people at the record store. This will make you look social in front of her, just make sure to keep her included in any conversations, and don't talk to anybody but her for very long.

Enjoy, and let us know how it goes

Both of the two things you suggested is by far BORING as fuck and every god damn dude she goes out with does exactly the same thing. Now ask yourself. Do you want to be chump #4583 or do you want to be interesting guy and innovative guy #1?


Here are some things you could do for exciting dates:

1) bowling
2) play video games (i can't stress how much girls like playing Wii)
3) anything that the girl can be interactive with


Really, if she doesn't remember you that well, you could just simply meet her at a coffee house or for lunch to reignite her interest, then follow it with a bounce to another location. (see above)

The bold and underlined advice is bad and I'll explain why. MOST women make their plans between the hours of 4pm-6pm. If you want to arrange something, do it during that time. Men are totally different than women in terms of planning. Generally we call each other up 1 hour prior and say "LETS GO GET DRUNK!" Women are a big more organized, and actually plan shit. Trust me on this advice.

Depends, if you want to date her on a regular basis or you just want the F-close and don't care if it is with her, somebody else in your phone book, or somebody new you meet that night. Calling her between 4 and 6 is setting up a date, rather than just giving her an excuse to spend enough time with you for you to make the F-close. I already mentioned that if you talk with her earlier in the day, let her know you want to see her that weekend, but the reason I suggest not committing to any plans that soon is to make it less of a date and more about what I want... F-close.

Wow great responses by you guys.. I like the advice/ideas.. She has been texting me occassionally just seein what's up and all that but this weekend ill let you know how things go. Feel free to add more ideas and other stuff if you would like =)

How in the hell do you gather that calling her between 4-6 is setting up a date as compared to calling later? No, what it does it allow you to set up something, and if it falls through you have other options. (F-close or LTR) The route you discuss will most likely lead to ONE option due to the fact she's most likely made other plans and she's not going to lead her friends to your venue due to the already made plans. Trust me on this man, I know what I'm talking about.

Scenario #1
So it boils down to this? Do you want to call prior to her making plans and set up a possible meeting point (option A), and if she doesn't show, you still have other women (option B) you'll be gaming if or when she arrives?


Scenario #2
Or you can call at 9pm, and find out she has already has plans to go somewhere else and most likely will not be able to meet you at your venue, and you are stuck with gaming other women (option A)

I don't know about you, but I prefer the scenario with 2 options compared to the one. That's what being a PUA is all about. OPTIONS.