Does anyone ever get this right as your about to open? Like when i'm walking towards a girl and she smiles at me and starts messings with her hair. Sometimes this happends to me and it throughs me off. I don't know whre i'm at in the scheme of things. I guess i need to read MM. I just use regular openers sometimes and i dont think me and her are on the same page.

But could some of you post a few openers, when you have IOIs before you even start to talk to her? Or explain a little on how I can deal with this.

Glad you are aware that you are receiving IOIs in the approach. That means the set should hook easier. Doesn't mean you're in a different stage. You still need to go from A1 to A2, etc etc. Its just a good sign for things to come basically.

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Girl gives me IOIs during or before my approach:
"Hi"

If you are sure she is giving you IOIs before or during an approach, a canned opener isnt needed. Openers are more used to open a set that isnt giving you IOIs off the bat, or even noticing you.

In terms of the Mystery Method, jump to A2. transition to a DLV story or routine.
Some light negs.

* On another note dont get too caught up in focusing on which part of the method youre at when a great opportunity arises. You'll just stall yourself out.


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Good Point Justincredible!

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Ya I have used that before, and then i have to take hold of the convo but with what?

I get some of these IOIs as I am coming toward them and they are coming towards me, so Im not trying to stop them from going in the opposite direction (doesnt that lower my value?)

I don't wanna go in and say "Hi, (DHV story)" would be rather awkward or out of place.
I work better with situational openers. Any ideas?


I might say "Don't go that way, theres a crazy hobo stealing purses." then maybe "i'll walk you to your car if youd like?" I dont know thats off the top of my head.

So shes walking towards you. From your original post, it didnt specify that the target would be moving. But anyway. . . no change in opening.

You
"Hi" Stop walking. She'll walk pass, have one of your shoulders pointing towards her. Flash a smile.


Given since you are certain that the IOIs are being sent from the start, same rules apply, no need to really open.
Her
"Hi" She'll see you stop. So she'll stop.

You
Just transition to "You're not gonna believe this...theres this crazy cross dressing hobo in that direction snatching purses and left shoes." Hold a serious face for a sec then smile. If she smiles back another def IOI.
"Lucky for you I forgot something in my car, and Im gonna walk that way. Bad news is if the Hobo starts throwing its Hobo things at us, your my shield "



If she doesnt stop remain in the shoulder pointing position. As soon as she says "Hi" or even bats her eyes at you, or even if she breathes in your direction. Just project your voice (Body still not facing her, but your head turned towards her).

"Olga!"

Her
"What? Im not Olga!" Or whatever she responds with.

You
"Oh? You look like it. So what should I call you then?"

Her
"How about (her real name)."

You
"Nice to meet you (her real name). BTW..." just transition to the hobo stealing purses comment and your on.

Field tested on the way to the building at my work. success.
I used man eating corporate sharks instead of cross dressing crazy hobos.

I may have written a script, which you may use but its more important if you can understand why I use certain comments, and suggest certain BL for when an interaction like that occurs.
Non-needy, C+F, Smile, playful.




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a guy that used phlem color to open
a 2 set."

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