(credit to my PUA friend Steffen)

you got the number of a HB...but what's next?!

When do I call a HB???

Wait 2 days, don't call her before these 2 days! remember: you are a busy man!!!!

call her between 8 and 10 p.m., that's the time when almost nobody has to do anything

She doesn't answer your call...try it again?

yes, maybe she couldn't answer the phone

She doesn't answer your second call....try again?

NO, delete her number, you called her twice! she has had a opportunity

she turns off her cell phone

really clear: DELETE #

she answers, what's next???

tell your first name, that's a sign of self-confidence (also when you're called)

How long should the call last???

Remember: you are a busy man! It should take about 10 till 15 minutes, never longer than 15 minutes!!!!

What should I say? Should i invite her to a date?

No! let her participate in your life, do not participate in hers!!

"Wanna go to the coffee-shop with me?"-->She's got the decision

"I'm at the coffe-shop today. Wanna meet me there?"-->better, but also her decision

"Today I am at the coffee-shop, come along"-->right! you say that you go there anyhow, she is allowed to come there too

She cancles the date. What now? New appointment?

there are 2 opinions....thats your decision....i prefer no

a little routine:

HB: "Im so sorry, i have no time at (whatever)"
You: "Doesn't matter, maybe we meet again sometimes..."
*hang up the phone* don't sound disappointed or angry!!!"

Some girls will call you back and tell you that they - surprisingly - have time for dating....

hope it helps

...by BackUp and PLAN...

very helpful guys thanks

I'm a bit partial to this route:

Her: I can't make it.

You: (dead silence)

Her: Hello? Are you there? What's wrong?

You: What's wrong is I can't believe the bullshit I'm hearing.

Her: What?

You: Look... you made a commitment to spend time with me and now you're blowing me off. You're disrespecting me and disrespecting my time and I'm NOT going to put up with it. My rule is, if someone makes a commitment to me, I expect them to keep it. If they can't keep it, I need to know at least a day in advance so I can make other plans. Got it? If you can live with that rule, great... if not, sayanora!

Then, hang up!!

I believe that Ross Jeffries thought that up. And just as BackUp said, they'll probably call back right after that.

Call her whenever you feel like...

Talk to her like you're already in a relationship with her...

When you care about your woman, when do you call her, how long do you talk to her and what and how?

Think about it...

Do you really need all these strict rules?

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Good advice Sorin,

guys certain patterns and techniques will work for some women and not for others. Instead of memorizing all these routines, take more time to discover the women as an individual. I can appreciate that some men find it more difficult than others to be spontaneous and comfortable around a women, so openers and and routines can help lower inhabitions and allow for initial conversation to flow more freely, but for fucks sake avoid becoming a robot who has to rely on patterns and techniques for every situation. Once a women scratches the surface of you´re personality... you´re gonna need a little more of yourself to shine through if you want things to go further. Thats unless you plan on launching a career as a 1-night-stand PUA with a lot of dumb girls. But hey, whats wrong with that? If you come up against a target with a little more intelligence thats when the stakes get raised, and you need to show more of your self. Anyway, its the weekend lets get sarging!

I aggree with sorin on this one, make the girl feel comfortable. Of course with restrictions, see how see reacts. If she's talketive, talk to her as long as u want, if she's busy say you too and make this a short conversation. Calling sundays at 4,5,6 pm has usually worked for me. The girl has nothing to do. (unless she has a BF).

IMPORTANT: Make sure u hang up first.

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My expirience is call her 1 or 2 days after meeting, but just call to say hi, do not invite her out in the first call... This will show her your interested but leave her with the curiosity of "Those he really like me?, is he really interested?, maybe not because he didn't ask me out, but then again if he was not interested why did he call?" Sometimes they call back to say hi and there is where you say what is posted above: "I'm in here... wanna join me?" or stuff like that. If she doesn´t call back call her again after another 1 or 2 days and this time do say the como join my life thing, or my friends are having a party this weekend wanna come?

Okay here is the deal.

Call her the first or second day next after meeting , call her and tell a story , a funny thing that happend to you on the day.

Then say something like I have to go , I have an important meeting , etc...

Then Call her and tell her to join you in the second cup of coffie ....


You get the point ?

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I dissagre with sorin.
can everyone just ask themselves the question:

When I was being myself ( a nice guy ), did I have a lot of hot chicks around me?

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She cancles the date. What now? New appointment?

there are 2 opinions....thats your decision....i prefer no

a little routine:

HB: "Im so sorry, i have no time at (whatever)"
You: "Doesn't matter, maybe we meet again sometimes..."
*hang up the phone* don't sound disappointed or angry!!!"

Some girls will call you back and tell you that they - surprisingly - have time for dating....


you cant jus hang up the phone that in itself looks as if ur upset ...
i would immediatly think u were

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Tickle it

I think tickler is right. Hanging up like that makes it seem like your really angry.

Maybe you should say something like:

Me: Haha! Poor you!
Her: Yea tadda haha bla bla bla
Me: Don't worry, I'm sure you'll get your break.
Her: Yea dadada
Me: Don't worry, I won't forget about you, I'll call you the next time I'm free.
Her: Ok

Now, if she flakes again, you follow the same routine, just to be nice.
But don't call her ever again, seriously, she's not worth it.

defo x

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Tickle it

You get forwarded to voice mail...

I don't know what ever anyone else thinks... but I usually leave a message after the second try. Just incase she wasn't able to get to the phone.

Naw dont think you should... if you wanna be seen as a busy man i doubt you'd wanna leave a msg tellin her you called? N what would yu even say as a msg..

true say...call and than dnt leave a msg, and punish her the same way you wud if she was tehre in perosn, if she doesnt respond you wudn't give her ur physical attention and likewise if she doesn't respond it's her loss, so let her come looking for you.

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