...she isn't really my X but she is a girl who I hooked up with about 6 weeks ago, here is the story:

I met her because she is my female friends roommate, sparks were flying and we hooked up both 2 nights I was there. We even stayed in contact for about 2 weeks after that but we live 2 hrs away and we knew we couldn't take things too seriously...so for the past month or so we might have 1 text per week

i'm going to stay with them next weekend because I have a work meeting up there and I was wondering what kind of attitude I need to have...I do like her but it's been a while since we talked so we are definitely going to be disconnected

....what should I do in this situation?

thanks guys

i bet that your friend has already told her that your coming. i would call her to see if she is gonna be around to have fun with you and your friends. when you get there you should flirt with her and be friendly but dont act like your depending on her for a lay (that doesnt mean ignoring her while you pull make outs in front of her) but get your friend to introduce you to new people so you can win them over easily to give you more value. then she will probably be all over you fighting for your attention - and when she does, give her value because this is a reward for her good behavior

wow thats good stuff...thanks a lot snake!!!