What you should have done is, when she started acting strange and stopped messing around, was to simply stop. I'm not sure in your situation but typicaly you'll get signs before she just throws on her close and runs out. I'm guessing there were a couple instances where she said something like "we shouldn't be doing this" or she may simply just push you away when you start trying to advance it further. It's a simple process called a "freeze out" and I know I've posted about it within the month so do a search on it cause there's a video. It pretty much tells you when you get LMR or Last Minute Resistance you cease ALL sexual activities but make sure you don't portray your change of emotion as a consiquence for her not complying. Again, Mystery explains it much better than I can so search for it.

However, a freeze out may not be the answer to your probelm. It does seem as if this girl has been playing you for awhile and she's known she had your attention from the start and you haven't done much to prove otherwise. It's very possible that she progressed the relationship to get what she needed out of you then bailed when she got what she was looking for.
In either situation I would strongly advise acting like the whole thing didn't effect you at all, not that it didn't happen just that it really didn't mean much. Go into work and do your normal routine on her as well as your normal office routine. Establish some consistency in your personality and make it seem like she is "just another girl". If she was playing you she'll retreat and if you still have a shot then she'll come chasing.

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

This chick just sent a text asking me how she can make it up to me.

ummmmm, don't reply. But, you probably already have, seeing as how you posted that this morning, lol.


BTW, it was a GOOD thing that you did when you hung up on her.

Hey Stop beating yourself! calm down and stay in control... if she did everything but fuck I know you didn't kino enough... kiss and pull back build sexual tension and pull back and move back in... if she is willing to do all that you have to relax and allow her to chase you... when you chase her and you're into the moment she becomes disinterested because she doesn't feel challenged... challenge her ass!!! That text means a lot to you... but don't show it to her... got it? you hung up... and took away... she had a fear of loss and since you didn't chase her she now wants to make it up... if you must say something tell her you want dinner and a show. hahaha.

Well, I fucked her twice tonight. She couldn't keep her hands off of me.

NICE!!! Well done!!!

Grats man glad it worked out for you

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."