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So I negged a group of girls about how quickly they changed out of their formal clothes and they were like, yeah first thing we got home. And I said: "What! You don't want to stay and look pretty a little longer?". One girl said :"So you're saying we're not pretty?" And I was kind of stuck on what to say probably was going to end up saying "maybe" but the friend I was with spoke first and said that "i didn't say it, he said it". Then we left.
What do I say for anything like that? So you're saying we're not pretty, you're saying we're fat, saying we're not fashionable? Is that a sign of a failed neg or just low self esteem?
Which is why I think next time I'll just say, "Whoa you have a self-esteem problem too!"
Thoughts?
Been there and made the same same mistake... I learned you only neg the target...never the whole group!!!!!! you gave them an opening to attack you.
Open the group first THEN neg only the target.
Damage control: "Not at all, I was just impressed by the way you guys(IOD) did the quick change. Were those dresses uncomfortable?"
It's Important to remember that if you say the right thing, women will actually forget what you said before...
Women can be cruel bitches when they are in a group (GROUP bitch shield)
Thanks for sharing, If we're here for anything, it's to learn from each others mistakes. And as for the AMOG friend.... one of these days he's gonna want to hang out with you and your girls........
BRO'S BEFORE HOE'S