G.L Routine:

-call
-DHV story
-something funny that happened to you today
-time constraint
-schedule a meeting
-end

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you wouldn't hang up the phone abruptly, it would be after saying "maybe we'll meet again... (blah blah and say your goodbyes."

Also, I do not think a voicemail should be left if you have or will call and be unanswered more than just the one time, it can only seem desperate.
However, a single voicemail with the one call will portray the image of a self-sufficient character who does not sidestep his desires.

Colorblind P I dont think you need and to a certain extent should say your good byes end it impartial not cold and it works and an ‘unintentional’ punishment. I tend to do exactly that if she blows off my plans eg.

Me: hey, heading off to the mall for a bite see u there
HB: Sorry cant <insert excuse>
Me: Ok maybe another time…HANG UP

Its not rude and usually you get 1 of two reactions
1. later that day…HB: Are you mad at me?
Me: No just had plans and not much time for anything else

2. HB: about last time I really had to go/do/see <excuse>
Me: so make it up to me…

Ok so lets say you call her after two days and she doesnt answer; how long do you wait to call the second time?

[quote="jaguarjoyce1"]Ok so lets say you call her after two days and she doesnt answer; how long do you wait to call the second time?[/quote

Go to 0:37 and there's a perfect routine for you that you can use to get her
to call you back

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What's 0:37?

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That video I posted is 2:08 long (2 minutes and 8 seconds long).
Fast forward to 0:37 (37 seconds) and that's a good routine for you.

Hope that clears things up

I'm not a fan of the waiting 3-days blasphemy. You swoop in on someone at the store during the week, or in my case, your waitress on thursday night, I wanna know their availability for the weekend. Every time I've violated "the rule," I just say I can't talk for more than a couple minutes, say I'm meeting up with friends for the night, and say I just gonna see what she was up to... 80% of the time i've gotten the "we should meet up."

I've gotten comfortable with the pre-phonecall text like "You'll be able to pick up your phone in 15 min, right?". If I get a yes, I call, make small talk and take it from there.

So do you guys think it's better to text beforehand (simply to see if they're busy/can talk) or just call once, and leave a quick message?

honestly i wait more than a couple days usually 4-6 before i call.. shows i still have a life with other plans.. also when i call i share a memory of the conversation we had

I usually stick with a 4 day rule, but to be honest a majority of the time I'll get a text from her before then and just play it from there

About the Ross Jeffries hangup routine...

I started doing this on flakes and girls who feed me BS, but not because I read it here, or anywhere for that matter. It just came naturally out of innergame and the whole "I am the prize" thing, as well as internalizing your game for ultimate congruency.

If I am the prize, if I have all this value, then damn straight, why would I ever put up with BS from a girl? I dont mess around when it happens, I just say straight to the point that they flaked and that shows a lack of social grace and manners, and frankly I date better people than that. Sorry. Click-dududududududududu... (tho usually it happens in texts because flakes almost never call you, instead they text you well after the point when they could have changed plans politely).

The results have been amusing, and positive. You get girls who want to argue with you or call you stupid and childish, and then you just throw it right back at them and list it all out what theyve done, one by one, so they cannot deny it or spin it in any way, and say "Sorry, I would never treat my friends that way. And no, Im not being rude or childish, I just have high standards (actually I think they are pretty reasonable), Ive learned not to put up with bad behavior like this, why should I?"

Ive gotten girls begging sorry and desperate for a chance to try again, which is fine, plus now you have emotionally spiked them, so next time hit them with a huge positive spike and they will pretty much melt in your arms.

That or they dont call back. Who cares? They are rude flakes, and we are better than that. If on the rare chance it comes around back to you, just stand your ground and explain it again. If you are confident about your position, even her gf's are going to give you the benefit of the doubt.

A wise man amongst the bureaucracy

She calls to cancel at the last minute... now what?

This is basically a shit test, and here's a field tested response:

HB: Hey, DD, [lame excuse]. Maybe we can meet another time?
DD: I don't think so, HB. Canceling a commitment at the last minute is direspectful, and I expect more from my friends. So are you gonna be disrespectful, or are you gonna get your butt over here? [This gives her a way to save face.]
HB: Oh, alright...

why would a woman u picked up me commited to you at all???
by being upset about her flaking on you ..u lower ur value a lot and seem like u were expecting her to go on a date with you....

do you wanna seem like the guy that gets mad at her not chillin with you...

OR

do you wanna seem like the guy that has 20 other options and doesnt care..

u have to trie to show her that u dotn care and that u will call another girl..and tell he rshes missin out..or use some cocky and funny and say somehting like "ok u loss ur once in a life time chance..next time im charging you"..

u get what i mean..im only 15 and phone game is very common for me

OMFG!!
last minute call tosay
she cant make it cause her grandmas in hospital
wat do i do?
i was just like some other time k
and im only trusting u cause i know u
but i dunno if this is just an excuse or the truth.
should I tell her to come along again?
or should I forget bout it ?