I've been reading sites such as
www.sosuave.com,
www.fastseduction.com and
www.seductionbase.com
I've compiled in my own words of what I think a neg really suppose to be.
A
NEG-HIT is rather a negative hit. There's a right way and a wrong way to deliever a neg-hit.
What a NEG
isn't:
1) A neg isn't a
INSULT. Many of the beginners or newbies, tend to throw a neg that is insultive. Practice over time will recalibrate the skill.
E.G. "You're a bitch!" Isn't a good neg but rather a insult.
2) A neg isn't to be
CRUEL. Maybe AFC's or newbies have a misconception about what a neg is and isn't. So for example,
"You're too fat for me!" or "You're too ugly to be my girlfriend!"
3) A neg
isn't a
Magic Bullet to have the girls fall all over you! It's close to get the girls to feel more attracted-so that's true but don't think that saying a neg will make them fall head over heels!
What a NEG
IS:
NOTE: A neg is a remark, usually humorous to point out a woman's flaw.
1)A neg is to be used to bring down a woman's
bitch-shield
2) A neg is to point out to a woman her
flaws which will make her fall off her self-imposed pedastal.
3) A woman is
SINCERE. A woman can smell a phone a mile away.
4) Lastly, it used to bring a woman aligned into reality.
When you effectively delievered the neg and it worked. Watch her expression on her face and also her eyes. They'll usually go into "Hey!" or the other expressions below:
1) This man isn't falling over me like a puppy dog! What's up with him?
2) This man isn't like any other AFC's I've talked to. WTF? Why doesn't tham guy think I'm hot? This will make them more curious about you and intrigued.
3) I can't believe he just said that! Am I really that not perfect?! This will make them more self-conscious about themselves. You don't want them to crash and burn though.
4) It will show them that you don't find them perfect in her looks. "OMG, this man is a REAL man! I think my panties are wet!"
5) It will create a challage and challenges for her is great. She'll be thinking, "OMG, this man has HIGH STANDARDS! I don't think he likes me-I gotta get him to like me!"
WHo and whom to deliever the neg hit:
It's most effectly used by a woman that is either 9 - 10 and thinks she ranks that high. It could also be used on a girl that thinks she's the shit and so hot that ever man falls over her, even though they're 6-7. These girls are usually called "Daddy's girls" and stuck up or high maintence.
If that little voice in your head screams out, "Don't do it! She'll hate me for it!" She'll reject me for sure!" You're wrong! It will bring them down into reality and since men are always kissing HB's asses. It will work!
If you haven't done a neg or ended it blowing up in your face. Just recalibrate your skill to perfection. Once it's done then you'll get more results and more numbers or maybe dates; since you didn't put them high above you. See, they already view them selves higher than you. Just knock them down from the pedastal and she'll realize that you go more than looks.
Two types to deliever a neg-hit:
1) A
serious-tone and a indicator that you're not joking but say it SINCERELY! The women you do this to is those are extremely stuck-up on ssome particular aspect.
2) A
humorous way to those women how have their bitch-shields up and think they're hotter than everyone else. Deliever it with humor and laughter.
The Three-groups negs fall into:
1) Her choices like lipstick, make-up, clothes, eyeliner, hair, shoes, necklace and earings and even bracelets.
2) Her physical characteristics such as how she walks, eats, drinks, talks, laugh, etc.. etc..
3) Her actions which include on how she treats people, or how she talks to people, etc... etc...
You can create choice-negs for opening lines such as:
"Hey I like your hairdo-kinda looks like the 1940's bee-hive!"
"Hey I like your nails! Are they fake?"
"Hey! Nice outfit *pause for response* I just saw another woman wearing that same thing!" Women hate this-ever see the sitcoms where the both friends wear the same outfit they go bizerk!
"Hey I like your glasses-kinda look like Steve Irkel! Oops! Did I do that!"
"Hey nice outfit-my (mother\aunt\grandma) have the same one!"
"I like your hair- but you'll look better if it was (dhorter/longer) to fit the shape of your face."
"Nice outfit but it would look better if you were [other color]!"
Here are some Physical Neg-Hits: Also a note is that use it in a humorous way unless the woman is extemely hot or stuck up then saying it serious! You're pointing out her flaw because you think it's
CUTE!
"You know you wiggle your nose like Samantha in Bewitched when you laugh"
"You have little crinkles around your eyes when you laugh!"
"You have the most devilish grin I've ever seen!"
"I like woman with weak\short chins!"
"An attractive girl like yourself should take better care of her nails!"
"You have a weird sense of humor!"
"It's kinda rude to chew with your mouth open!" I've used this multiple times!
"You just spat on me!"
"Please don't interrupt me while I'm speaking!" Most women will often do this alot!
If the woman says her ass is big or boobs are small, or whatever that's fishing for you to compliment her. Use this, "Nah, Sir Mix-A-Lot (or Puffy daddy or Snoop Daddy) would love your (ass\tits\whatever)!"
"You really have (short\long) fingers!"
"Do you use a conditioner for split ends?"
So when using these type of neg always use humor so it doesn't sound cruel or harsh!
Using these physical neg hits will make her think, "my [body part] is [some characteristic]. Does any other man think like him? I don't think he's like other men!"
Say you walked up to a woman and said "hi" and they gave you a dirty look! "I'm not interested!" and walk away. This is good on extremely stuck up women and also it will call them out on their bullshit!
Examples of ACTION NEG HITS:
- say you walk up to a woman and she blows you off! "Hey-lady *laugh* I was just gonna ask for (ketchup/mustard/ashtray/whatever)! *laugh and start walk away* But when you want to apologize I'll be over there." THere is not
IF but best said is
WHEN.
- "You know your really unbecoming a woman that you really are by being so snobbish!"
- "You behave so rudely. Did anyone teach you manners!" THis is best when you overhear her talking to someone rudely.
- If a woman cusses alot, "You know it's very unattractive for a woman to cuss like that?"
- "Have some consideration when blowing your smoke!"
- Correct her grammer but don't sound too prompous!
You must have
EXTREME CONFIDENCE to pull off a neg-hit rather if it's funny or not. It'll be like hunting without a loaded rifle. It's just fucking suicide!
Be prepared for the woman to neg-hit you back after you said you're neg. These are tests or called, "Shit" tests to check to see what kinda man you are. You'll have to come up with some smart ass responses to pass these tests. If you do pass it will show the girl that you're smart and have wit, also your challenging, also in control. In other words, "You don't give a fuck who she is and that she doesn't impress you!"
Don't tell the woman that you have\did\going to neg hit her. DOn't explain what a neg hit is actually. She'll swear by the bible that it doesn't work for her.
Also, don't listen to women what they say. They may say something but completely mean the opposite. They even know this and they don't want that little secret out. THey'll even deny that as well!
Take care guys and I hope this helped! Peace out!
CHAT
