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| pjmpua | PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:50 am | |
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Posts: 1 | | No flaking, but consistently late on dates (say 1/2 to 1hr). Told me this up front on first date. (Did not address at time...paying now)
Now what...Have not, and do not believe I should setup anymore dates. I suppose this is a value issue. (Her putting her time at higher value than mine.)
Salvageable,how, or not? (Value issue)
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 1:38 pm | |
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Location: Toronto, Canada | | You could always just start showing up a half hour late to everything... Then she'd be practically on time.
She did tell you up front... Maybe she's just a habitually late person.
If it bothers you, don't date her.
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| morrigan | PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 5:49 pm | |
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Posts: 15 | | I wouldn't even bother. I can deal with a lot of personality defects, but lateness / flaking isn't one of them. Invite her along to something where it won't matter if she's late (a party you're going to or whatever) if you want to see her again, but I personally would ditch her for someone who can hold a damn schedule.
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| Pickwick | PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2014 8:28 pm | |
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Posts: 659 | | I agree with everything said above, but also why not come pick her up? I feel like she will be less flakey, plus you can come a bit later to her house so she knows how it feels (as opposed to coming to a set place, she's home and she won't get up and leave). Come 5-10 minutes later than you promised.
As of now it seems like she said, "I will have things how I want them and you will still date me if it's inconvenient for you." _________________ A morning of awkwardness is far better than a night of loneliness.
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| Mason1228 | PostPosted: Mon Dec 29, 2014 1:07 am | |
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Posts: 62 | | Yeah it is a sign of selfishness for a girl to always be late. My ex would always be straggling when we had plans that were mine that were time sensitive. When she wanted to do something I'd be in the dog house for showing up 15 min late.
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| garibaldipomm | PostPosted: Mon Jan 05, 2015 1:32 pm | |
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Posts: 5 | | I wouldn't correct my behavior, but rather ask her why she was late and tell it's not ok when it's some random reasoning. Ditching shouldn't be based on something this arbitrary which could be corrected with very basic communication.
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