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I couldn't find a thread like this, so I thought I'd start one. What I want here are just openers. Let's leave aside the theory for a minute and just post some cool things to say to open up a conversation with a woman that's more than just "Hey, how are you..."
I'll begin. One that I really like and that gets good results is "You look as though you know what's going on here..." followed by a contextual question.
Go at it. Let's see what you've all got.
I find something interesting and comment on it, followed by introducing myself. I don't go clubbing, and the bars I frequent aren't the rowdy college kid type bar with a dance floor etc. So I use it pretty much everywhere. I haven't worried about improving it because it works extremely well and in my opinion it doesn't matter all that much, what I say and how I act is way more important than how I get her attention.
As far as getting a girls attention your only goal should be not to creep her out. After that run your game.
Some examples :
-I was walking by and had to come talk to you, I love your coat, you have that whole funky vibe going on. Very cool. My name is Breedlove.
-I love your style. You must work in fashion or do some kind of design? My name is Breedlove by the way.
-I love that dress, I almost wore one just like it, how embarrassing, right?
-You have a lovely smile, it makes me want to come over and say hello.