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| Wildcard1988 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2014 9:05 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 06, 2014 10:56 am Posts: 8 | | I found out a few days ago that there are speed dating events organized in my town, usually once a month. I'm thinking of going to one to try out something new and fun.
Do you guys have any good speed dating routines? I usually use the cube routine when on date with girls and they always love it, but on speed dating events I only have 4 minutes. So I need some short and fun routines =)
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| oceanx | PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2014 9:35 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:50 pm Posts: 2864 | | Be an upbeat mofo with an edge and a good vibe, that's all it takes out on the streets.
I'm not assuming you don't game out in the world but throwing this out there as a suggestion in case you don't:
I can "speed date" as many girls as I want 24/7/365 (and so can you) - it's endless - look around, there are women everywhere. Many of them bored out of their fucking minds. Many of them haven't had sex in weeks or months. Many of them would LOVE for a change of pace to their regular lives of AFC inundation and going home to pet the cat, order takeout, watch netflix and go to sleep. "Speed date" them anywhere you are by approaching them and having a convo.
Have fun at the event you never know you might meet a couple of hotties. But yeah I would scrap the routines and make them feel good by your infectious energy. They'll want more where that came from. Whatever you do, don't come off as a "nice" guy trying to impress these ladies - that's what every other bloke will be doing.
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Wed Nov 05, 2014 2:16 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:17 pm Posts: 3427 Location: Toronto, Canada | | I've actually done speed dating twice now - more so because a group was doing it and drinks were included.
It's a half fun way to spend an evening - and eliminates rejection, if you're still scared of rejection (you either check yes or no, and if she does the same, you match).
I wound up with 4 or 5 matches both times I think... But not much ever came from them.
As for strategy, assume every guy is going to ask "So, what do you do?"; "Are you originally from here"; "Do you have any siblings?"; "What do you do for fun?"...... And try to go beyond those questions - almost into the absurd if you want.
In this case you really can treat it like an interview...
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