Hello All,

This is my first post in this forum so I apologize in advance if this type of question has been done to death.

I'm really curious as to how to be the life of a party? I'm not having too many issues with opening, DHVing, and number closing, and I feel like I do just fine with one-on-one game but I'm just curious as to how to keep a whole set (especially a mixed set) laughing and engaged? Most of my stories are just cool, but not necessarily super funny. I've always wanted to be the center of attention and the leader of a group right off the bat and I'm looking for ways to captivate a whole group in a bar, or at a party, or something. I think of Mystery's "be the observed" and I'm wondering if any of you had any routines, tips, or games to play to get a whole mixed group laughing loudly, and drawing in attention while being the PUA at the center of it?

You guys are great, and I'm happy to have finally registered here!

Thanks!
TC

Hi and welcome!

I view being the life of the party the same as being the main role in a play. I suddenly put on this ridiculously charismatic attitude, smile from ear to ear and enter a room.

Upon noticing speculation from others:
I make sure to look like I'm having the most fun in the room, whether that means doing ridiculous dance moves or shouting stupid quotes like "you've got no fans" - I ensure I look like I'm in my own reality, not caring about anyone elses thoughts, I don't take myself too seriously and that I look like the most fun guy in the room/place. Seriously the less shits I give about others, the more girls seem to drift towards me!

Upon engaging a group:
SMILE! Infact I'm telling you the word "smile" is like a trigger word. Try going up to any girl and say "smile" and they instantly will. It's like when a doctor hits a reaction point on your knee with a hammer - you don't necessarily want to, it just naturally happens! Remain that fun, positive guy and try to make as many people smile in the room/area. This will 1\ make that persons last memory of you positive and fun 2\ It will give you social proof because the more popular you seem among men, the more of a leader of men you become. This will put you at the center of the party. This will then allow you to become part of any social circle in which you wish to engage a lot easier.

I'd use the dance floor to get the speculation off others and the smoking area/quieter areas to be that loud, positive, charismatic guy that's at the center of attention. This will then allow you to enter any set you wish.

Hope this helps!

The loudest person in the room is the weakest person in the room

Being a dancing monkey/entertainer guy is a DLV, however, I know that starting out, things like this will push your comfort zones and grow as a person.

I can consistently get the whole dancefloor putty in my hands by taking my belt off and give one end to a girl and get her friends to do belt limo. The whole place goes beserk for it. It's hard to get blown out after something like that.

You can also look up many magic tricks on YouTube that will make you centre of attention

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