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I don't know why you would use that straight up. Why not save that for the bedroom once you are comfortable with eachother. No reason to risk creeping her out this early because later on down the road she'd be cool w/ it but right now to a stranger probably not.
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Just build sexual tension the regular way and establish some rapport. Once you've done so, start sexually framing (...)
Established rapport means that you have connected on some levels so you're no longer just a stranger. It's not like Chief suggested using this as in an Apocalypse opener style. Also, once sexual framing starts, I find that it's not creepy at all to discuss kinky stuff with women. Especially so common and not at all weird stuff like foot fetish(not that I have it, but I don't find it gross at all). It only becomes creepy when you're afraid of creeping her out. So as far as your routine goes, it's not really a matter of how you build your routine, but you'd need to clear this limiting thing off your mind, that this would actually creep women out. The ones that are creeped out are sexually too conservative for you, as a person with a foot fetish, or you didn't open them up sexually enough(meaning lack of rapport, and/or lack of sexual framing)
Yes, you could actually wait until you bed her. But I find Chief's way better as a usable, practical method. And that's because a) You immediately screen out the ones that are definitely not into this stuff and b) You don't have to worry about whether she'd be creeped out in the bedroom by this the entire time you're seducing her.
On a complete side note: Guys, stop worrying about creeping out women. It'll make your life easier. And ironically, it'll make you as non-creepy, as you can possibly be(except for if you're a psycho. Then you'll be a creep regardless).
Peace,
In$tinct
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Just wait until you get her back home or to her place.
