| Take my advice with a grain of salt. I don't claim to be the expert by ANY means, but I'd say you overdid it a bit by calling her so much.
She texted on Sunday = good sign, she sees you as more than just a Saturday night makeout buddy at the bar.
You texted back = fine, you reciprocated (rewarded her IOI without appearing too needy).
You call back Monday - 1 day after you already texted = I think this is a bit much. Great that you talked, but you already communicated that you are into her, so may have been a little over the top. Why couldn't she see the movie with you Saturday? What was her excuse? There is a difference between: "oh, can't, it's my mom's birthday/bff's wedding, etc." vs. "oh can't, have other plans (translation: have other plans that are better than hanging out with YOU). So it depends...
You call again on Wednesday = now I think you overdid it a bit. What kind of message did you leave?
Anyway, regardless of what's happened - no use in crying over spilled milk - my suggestion would be to lay low. Go out with your friends. Go sarging. Do something fun without thinking about her. The ball is clearly in her court. You showed her you were interested, you invited her to come see what you are all about - see the movie, continue hanging out with you, etc. It's up to her. You can't continue pushing because that will only turn her off because you will appear too needy.
Again, this is just MY opinion on what you described. Take it for what it's worth.
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