Hey all,

I'm in C1 w/ a HB from school and she gave me her number and screen name without me asking. We've been talking online alot (cuz she lives far away) and texting every once in a while. I've been doing C&F, coming off as not-needy, DHVing alot, done roll-offs & freeze-outs. I 've already been out w/ her once a couple weeks back and I wanted to set up a 2nd date now that she's back in town; and has been for 3 days.

I sent her a text message today:

PM88ENG: I really feel like going out tonight. Come keep me company.
HB: Haha, Bored of your friends already?
PM88ENG: Playing hard to get doesn't work on me, sweetheart :p. I get off work at 4. Meet you at school?
HB: You're silly. I can't today - my suitemate and I are going shopping.
PM88ENG: lol no prob.

I'm wondering what I do now?

Just wait call her and talk to her like a normal person. Don't bug her to go out in fact don't ask her at all. If she wants to go she will bug you.

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What does she mean 'bored of your friends already' -- Theres pretext there that she knows about, that we don't. Seems like you made some new friends or something.
Anyways the best advice I can give is that if you do ask her out (cause I don't want to belittle someone else's opinion, this is just if you choose the obvious option of asking her out, unless you think you played your cards right enough to have her call you for a date) Make it seem like your already doing something and have her come along for fun. So I would find something fun to do and call her and be like 'what are you doing? omg thats so boring, you should come with me and do this.'
And if she rejects you, sorry mate somewhere you messed up, she's not attracted to you.

Honestly if she's in town for three days it seems like if she's attracted to you, she would call you. You need to think about how you came to find out she's in town. If she told you, why did she tell you, how did she tell you. How long is she back in town?

I dated this girl for the summer then she went to college a couple hundred miles away and every time she came back to town she would call me even if I already knew she was coming. On the drive home, when she got home, and sometimes before setting something up.

Remember to try and be the prize though, when you talk to her, make sure she knows you are attracted to her but don't jump through hoops for her. When I'm learning the game as well, but something I've learned is building value and expecting them to be attracted to you doesn't really work. Yes it will work on some girls, once they are attracted to you they will chase you, but for the most part you need to build value, have them be attracted to you. THEN start showing your attraction to them. However, whenever you start showing your attraction to them, make sure to stay the prize whenever you do it. This is something I just recently learned, and I can't believe I missed it before since it's so basic. You probably already know this, and if you did sorry I couldn't help, but if you didnt, I'm glad I could help.

You'd think she would want to hang out with you with the information you've given us so based on that I would be hesitant on calling her so much. Depending on how much game you've thrown at her, you either need to be forward to work more game on her, or elusive because you don't want to DLV yourself. I hope this helps.. I'm reading over this, and it would probably confuse me if I was in your situation