Hi,

I fancy one of the barmaids in the local pub and my moves have been going pretty well so far, although I have staggered a bit lately.

She's always getting comments that she's pretty so I thought I'd try something different and said she looks like the pixie in the movie 'The Dark Crystal'. Her face lit up when I said that so it went down well. Another night I brought in a Christmas present for her, it was the DVD of the film wrapped in newspaper inside a stocking along with a plastic eye that flashes when you bounce it, a bit like the witches eye in the film, totally useless!

She hugged the stocking and loved it and couldn't wait to open it. Now I'm waiting for her to watch the film so she can discover who she looks like.

On other visits there's been playful flirting and I even set a jealousy trap by having a lap dancer dress hot and slutty and flirt with me in front of her.

My problem is that I asked her out and she said she'd think about it because she has a long distance boyfriend and feels awkward giving her number out at the bar. At that stage instead of saying something cocky and funny I lamed out and just said ok.

So I'm after ideas for the next move and to reverse the chase.

Maybe just meet her outside the bar one time? Ask her what time she gets off work and go out on an instant date. "grab a coffee with me".

Good idea, she usually works evenings so might have to come up with another idea for an instant date.

Success!

The pixie is coming round this week. My flat mate thinks I should display social proof by having other people round the flat as well as us 2 for a bit of a gathering.

So I'm looking for ideas to show her a great time round the flat. Maybe it could be a video night, poker night, Wii tennis tournament.

Any other ideas people? Cheers, much appreciated.

Nice goin man, there's this hot one who works at a bar in my town with ginger hair, dam she's gorgeous. God knows how im gonna chat her up though cus they're are no stools at the bar and its pretty busy. Spose its worth a bash. I was hoping to see her outside of work and give it a go then, but i could put my money on her having a BF, all the nice ones round here have BF's, i cant get my head round it, but if anyone knows any magical way to chat up a barmaid let me know.

Man gaming barmaids is hell! Its my main area of focus at the moment, i want to push this to the level where i can do everything super fast, its good for my calibration.

This friday just gone me and a friend opened two barmaids with the line 'Did any of you have an imaginary friend when you were younger?'

They LOVED us. Im figuring being interesting and being the exception to the rule is really what grabs the attention and seals the deal here.

From there we just gamed them as if they were normal girls, maintaining extra strong frame and an aura of 'cool' of course.

No idea how im going to close, we're back there this saturday, any thoughts on closing barmaids?

I can't really help that much but DON'T offer to buy her a drink or tell her she'ss beautiful, as I'm sure she gets this all the time (but you probably know that). Also I think as mentioned above the instant date is a good idea. If it's busy I would recommend going there in the daytime (if you're not working) and gaming her then.