alright gents / and ladies so i see..

i was myspacing this girl, and she was home for vacation - gave me her home cell phone number ( obviously dif. from current one)

i called her, and told her to call me since she has my number - she said " it doesn't work that way" i called her out on playing high-school games and that its not interesting to me...she was like " what?!?!" but a good laugh too -

so - 2 days later she gets back from vacation and messages me -gives me her phone numnber " if you want to you can call me now - xxx-xxxx"

now, i dind't call for a day - i am thinking about it today -

i want to do three options here, give some feedback

1 - invite her to watch me and a friend play at a local bar this saturday- (i only get like 30 min breaks in between sets though - and after midnight - no breaks until 3 basically - this cuts down on game time but DHV like a bitch...)

2 - invite her over friday - for a small get together at my house - typical - may be boring and mostly guys though

3 - just phone game her for a while until i can set up something on sunday - ( ice cream or help me pick-out some shorts/shirts..)


what do you guys think- she is a 7.5 - but on this island ( Guam ) there a limited people and her status is high - so she is like an 8.5 probably...

she seems interested, but we have only talked a few times -

give it up gents/ladies

produce

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Invite her to come and watch you play, but tell her to bring a friend or two to hang around with. Then on your breaks make her feel priviledged to know the band, this way she wont feel like its anything. It's just her coming to listen to you, that immediately breaks down the unknown for her.

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What a title!

This is a great idea if you can make sure that her attention is not stolen by anyone else. If you do invite her to this, suggest that she bring a friend (female), that way she will have someone to talk to. This way, she wont get bored and go looking for entertainment (guys)

Unless you intend to use this get together to continue to DHV and work on social proof, leave this one out, especially if she might be the only girl. It might just be awkward for her and with all the other guys there, you don't want to have to play games all night long to keep her focus on you.
Personally, i like this idea the best. Take her out for ice cream/lunch and then go clothes shopping. Ask her advice on outfits and try to convince her to try on silly thing and just have fun with it.

If that date goes well, and you know she is really into you, then invite her to come see you play some night. That way you know her attention wont wander.

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alright, i called her, she sounded tired, but i didn't ask why - her problem

so i told her, about the situations - i played it safe -

" if you want - you can check out me and my buddy at the bar, but bring a friend cause it will be boring watching rockstars when you can't have them... . or you can tag along as i get some ice cream, shorts and shirts maybe friday.. maybe sunday - "

she loved it - i picked on her for lying about small talk, and how she didn't believe i wsa 21, i said she had trust issues ( turned out to be a former bad bf)

it was funny - she did say " you are so weird " cause i would cut her off in mid-sentance and say " what are your three best qualities. and don't say your butt, because as you know - you are ugly as hell - ..." i laughed cause she is obvoiusly good looking - sheloved it.. but just thought it was wierd - i came back and said " just cause i am the first interesting guy you have ever talked to, doesn't mean you can call me names"

later she said we were going to fight ( playfully ) and she was upset about not being able to get together today since i am busy , and told me friday she would call me after she gets out of work to do something

- - that was basically it -

haha - but what now?... when we talk again .. should i go to comfort building ?? - i am thinking i am already there but.. i am not sure since i havn't even seen her before -

whatever - give me some feedback -

love you guys


produce

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"this is my reality, and you are just a guest.."

Comfort building is going to be main with this girl because as you have already stated she has trust issues so she will most likely be qualifying you still. the sooner you build comfort with her the better but you will only know if she is ready for that at the time dude.

alright, for those of you keeping track of this interesting game deal i got here

here was the weekend.. friday - she called me and wanted to hang out - since i already had plans with another girl, couldn't do that-

so she called me later that night and wanted me to come "visit" at three am... i was already drunk, didn't want to drive..

saturday - i play at a local bar - she went to a movie and wanted to hang out later - now - at this point, i realize she is chasing me a little bit, ANd she has a bf... kind of scary - it will make sense later -

- she came to see me play with another girl and a guy, so i finish a set and open them up - no drinks for me yet, but me and the guy talk, and i neg her, kino a little bit until i go for my next set - everything is going great -

- as i am doing a song - my phone lights up on the side - she texts me " you are so hot up there,...." - now, this is clue #2 to me she is a "friendly" girl...
- after that we play the fuck, fight and friend game - i may have messed it up - but she whispered that she would do me... and fight this beautiful 8 hitting on me as i was talking to my target.. pretty awesome actually - i got the 8's number, and her friends - this week i got more game to play -

later that night - she leaves early and i have to finish up the bar till 3 - again- she wnts me to visit aafter - but again - haha.. i was drunk

sunday- i call her and tell her i have a suprise for her later - but she has to be a good girl and call me after dinner...she calles me 2x's withing i a30 min period....despiration is at hand - but she is pretty hot -

so i go to her house at like 11, we watch a movie and start necking a little, get some rubs in and she lmr'ed me to hell with her bf, i freeze out and say its great that she has control... following moaning in my ear and rubbing the good spot - haha - all in all, i didn't f-close, i didn't want to - we talked about relationships, i told her i slept with 2342 women ( obviously false) and she told me she used to be " a party girl" - a.k.a. - ultra friendly - and she wants to quit that - as she talks to me about being able to bj like a champ - i am offocially confused and flee...can anyone blame me -

she texts me all the time now - and def. wants more magic - haha- but i am not interested in that crap now - i want to get better at game ...

sum-up

- she wants me like a bad habit and is affraid of feeling guilty - lmr -
- needed more comfort - i stayed in attraction too long
- can still close - but little desire for obvoius reasons -
- she has no hot friends to branch off too -


what would you guys say - feed me some feedback dudes

take it easy - and

GAME ON

produce

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"this is my reality, and you are just a guest.."