this is the setting: i was out in a club with a female friend or mine, one guy friend and 4 other girls friends with my female friend, that i had just met prepartying. its not usually a problem to get the kiss in the dancefloor once you've created enough attraction in the preparty, but this is something i came up with that will probably become a rutine, that's spesifically created for this kinds of situations, where you are way to sober to just go and grab her to isolate her. plus its a pre selection DHV. so here it is.

the preparation:

ideally you have been dancing silly the hole evening, a LOT of energy, giving love to people, (by that i mean smile and lift your drink up while dancing, to every girl that catches your eye and stuff), etc... this is to show that you intend to have an awesome time, not find a girl to hook up with.

first part:

ok so the first part is only fisical. big groups tend to become circles in the dance floor, so we should use that to our advantage. what i did was i pushed my female friend into the centerof the circle, she danced a little, we where like yeahh!! and stuff, then she came out. i thow my guy friend into the circle, he does his shit, then comes out. then i try to push one of the friends of my friend, (not my target) she goes in briefly, then throughs me inside. after this comes part 2.

why is this good?

as you are leading the situation, you become the AMOG in that situation. the fact that you pushed people into the circle makes you the leader, at least in that moment, of the situation. one of the switches: leader of men. also the fact that you do this playfully, makes you look like you dont take it too seriously.

last part:

once in the circle, you dance a bit, make a fool out of your self, i am a terrible dancer so i just do something really silly, it has to go with the beat of the music, thats the only condition i think.
you will start to feel like you should do something or it will get boring. thats when i turned to my target and asked her for her hands, (not verbally, by showing her mine, you know. i shoud make a video about this so its clearer.)

she in my case did not want to come inside. thats absolutely logical and most likely this will happen. when she refises, as you two are holding hands, what i did was i just came really close to her, and kinda huged her, putted my hands arround her waist, and, most importantly, i wouldnt say pushed her but kinda drived her away from the group slowly.

then i playfully toled her im not kissing you, dont have any ideas (credits are in order to simple pickup for this bit) and played arround with that while getting closer and closer to kissing her, like noses taching, forheads taching, until finally she gave in. (supposedly i did too haha)

this is it. hope it helps. i might be posting a shorter version of the rutine later, i just came from the club and had to write in to avoid forgetting it.

Owen.

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