I came upon a situation the other night at a party the other night that completely baffled me and I didn't excactly know what to say . I was talking with this girl and we were having a bit of banter, a little flirty and then as a push and pull technique I pushed her away, and jokingly she said should I just leave now then..? Any ideas of a good response to this if it happens again?

Thanks in advance

I don't see where is the problem?

Always use "loop", or question back...

1. Do you feel like leaving or like having fun with me?

2. We both know that would be mistake kuz we can have sooooo much fun (and wink).

3. If you leave you will miss a lot.... (stop here)

4. Or you could just pull her, look her in the eyes and ask... seriously?? you wanna run now? (do it in a sexual way)

and so on... dont be afraid to be direct here and show her who leads... yes it is a shit test, but that was the chance for you to show her what she'd be missing if she left or make her even more interested and so on...