Hi guys! This is a routine that I´ve picked up from alpha rules. Ít´s good to use after opening and will increase her comfort.

The Genuine Curiosity Connector works like this:

1) After she answers your opener - whatever it may be - you do a quick gut-check. This is your opportunity to relax and release any tension you might have inside about talking with a woman.

2) Breathe in and out - deeply. As you exhale, let the tension fall out of your shoulders (again, 95% of guys hold their tension in their shoulders and neck, so release it!).

3) Imagine there's a warm, bright heat coming off her body and being absorbed into you, and vice-versa. You're both sharing the same energy, like a connection between your emotional centers. It's past all the superficial masks and personas, and it cuts right through to the REAL person inside.

4) Then look at her and say, "I bet you have a fantastic story to tell me about yourself... What is it?"

Take a second to pause for effect before you say, "What is it?"

Hold her gaze the whole time, and keep your face relaxed, and your stare very soft, not intense. (Turn off those Manson-lamps!)

And, to really lock this in, breathe in and out again deeply, imagining that another wave of heat and light is radiating off of you and being absorbed into her.

Remember to keep your intention strictly on learning what her interesting story is, no matter what she comes up with. You may have to dig a little, because most women aren't used to men being this in-tune with her, but when she does reveal her "fantastic story," you're going to have no problem with uncomfortable silences.


Now for all of you who use nlp and are into SS can continue this routine with something to someone pattern if you find out that she loves something during her story.