| Hi.
I party alot with this bunch of girls. I always liked one of them -but due the the fact she had a boyfriend I didn't make a move. A while ago approx 3 weeks I knew the relationship of her (if you could call it that way as it was never really on but constantly an insecure situation for her that only lasted 3months) had ended. She went to party with me (and those girls) in the city we all study. As she didn't have a place to crash I suggested she could sleep over. (Still no intentions, I game before I fuck). As that partynight evolved all her friends left but I had friends from my football team stilll there so I partied somemore. She decided that she would stay and sleep over at that moment, we got drunk, I gamed her a bit, she danced alot with me... But no K-close at the party. Finally at my place I asked if she would lay with me (bit warmer, only had 1 big blanket), went for it and it worked. Lovely night...She told me she doesn't knew if we were doing the right thing.. but thinks 'm attractive. Few nights later I kissed her again after a party, got good texting, (she calling me baby ect making jokes of sleeping over again ... )
I asked her out a while later but she had to cancel that night (even too she really wanted), her sister was taking family out for a birthdaydinner, in a city a bit further as one of their relatives was in the hospital over there. (She past away now ftr).
Now the problem : Last monday we went out again bit that group, at a certain moment suddenly her ex-bf pops up.. acting still quite close, even buying me a drink (I lolled.). He took her to another party for another half hour (weird moving as she had to get her bus in 40mins or so). May have slept with that guy.. no idea tbh. Before she left I asked if we would go for a drink next week, she said sure-and I see you friday on a prom. (bit absurd she was going as she had the funeral of the relative that day but oke....)
Had some regular texting how I am doing threw fb during the week, she gives attention ...
Now at the prom I see her texting all the time with that guy again which kind of irritates me (mindfuck, not about em being insecure but noticing she won't be emotionalle available) so at the end when she goes home I walked with her for 2 mins and told her to set things straight about her past (and that possible relationship with her ex) before meeting up with me. I told her I know she likes me and that I like her but that this way only people their feelings will get hurt. Told her she should text me if she wants to go have a drink (should happen as she will be living in the city again in approx 2 weeks I think). Thought I was a bit harsh but I had to pull a line IMO. I texted her gnight and that she was wearing a pritty dress-no response ...
I am not a passive person so stepping back was a move I may have better not done.
She is a passive person (HB8, intelligent, funny but not a freak/whore, rather a good girl) which realises she currently shouldn't be in a relationship.
How do I continue this?
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