im trying to create a step by step guide for myself to practice daily. like when i use openers, i wanna know exactly how to respond and base off what she text me, i know {attraction, comfort, seduction} is the core step ut im having a hard time following those step in that order or maybe im over thing to much. sometime when i use an opener i go blank after she respond . any advie on what im doing wrong?
also this is the HB6 im sarging.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=43875369
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?sld ... d=43222602
and heres my profile http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=43685080

Tell a story, don't think about it. At the start of the conversation you don't need to show her you're interested so just tell her stories that demonstrate that you are a good catch. Show you're clever, or good at sport or music or whatever.

If you freeze up because you feel the pressure of them being too attractive, then something I used to do was imagine them giving head. Imagining a girl doing something like that I used to find helped me talk to them.

The other thing to bear in mind is that picking up girls isn't a one way street. A lot of guys think that they have to do everything, but in reality all the girls want to be hit on, its a massive compliment, so don't think you are doing all the work. They want you to succeed just as much as you do because at the end of the day she doesn't want to go home having not met anyone either.

I would agree that you are definitely over thinking it. I don't know how comfortable you are talking to strangers, but it might be worth just going out one night (or day) and simply talking to everyone you see. And that includes guys, just talk to literally everyone, not as much in a flirty way, but just talk. You will find that naturally some of the women will be attracted to you, but you'll also find that when you go out next, going and opening someone and flirting will be a lot easier.

This is GOLD! I've just summarised this post and added it to my notebook .

j2serious, I think you overanalysing everything too much. Be comfortable with pauses in the conversation but once you use an opener you should be able to follow up with something, no matter what her response is. Tailor your reply to her's if you can but if you can't, it's not a big deal, just follow up with something situational.

thanks for the tips guys