Hi hey yo guys, it has been a while.

So last night was my first night at a bigger club. I've recently turned 18 (legal clubbing age in Sweden) so I went to a club with two of my girls.

Man I loved it. Can't think of a way to easier get super hot girls than clubbing. Problem though is that all the girls are older than me. I made out and talked with a girl one year older than me who was totally my bodytype but then I let her go. Why? Because I felt bad because she thought that I was her age. Another girl I made out with was three years older than me who though I was only one year younger.

Soon after I got talking to any girl they asked me how old I was. I replied "how old do you think I am"(they usually responded with how ever old they were - WISHFUL THINKING LOL). Then I just smiled and didn't say anything, making them assume they were correct.

What I wonder though, how can I be honest and frame it so that girls are OK with dating a younger guy. I know most of you guys don't see this as a problem but at least in my culture and age (15-20 years old) it is taboo for girls to date younger guys. The girl that was super hot and my bodytype for an example was actually being teased by her friends for having a crush on a guy my age when I opened her. I think even I teased her for it (yeye probably not the best thing to do).

Soo anyone got any technique to get a girl not care about your age(I'm tall and well built so my physique isn't the issue). Maybe something like "You're not age-discriminating are you?". I'm probably gonna grow some facial hair aswell.

I'm looking for girls I can date not one night stands(preferably).
THAAANKS

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A general rule is this:

Take your age (18)
Minus 7 (11)
Double it (22)

That's your threshold.

Another thing to be aware of is that age really doesn't matter all that much. I mean if the two of you get on really well, then yeah, great there's no issues just be happy with the way the two of you work together, and you'll have a good relationship. As long as you have the same outlooks on life and respect each other, I see no reason why an age difference (in moderation) would be a problem.

It's great for you that you don't see this as a problem, neither do I. The problem is that some girls do. As I said as an example, one of the girls I made out with was being teased for liking a kid my age. She said that she wouldn't involve herself with anyone younger than her. Don't give me "there are other fish in the sea, shes a lesbian!"-talk now. And the girl I made out with who was three years older said that her limit was at people one year younger than her. So we don't see this as a problem, but girls care about what other people think so they do care.

Can anyone address my original question?

oh and your age equation is flawed, I can bang milf but I cant bang people that are eleven years old. What the fuck that is pedophilia and I don't want to get sent to fucking jail

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No, you misread my equation :L No way is an 18 year old and 11 year old acceptable in any circumstances.

I meant the highest age you should go to is 22, no higher.

as for a low age, I'd recommend 16, however it's completely up to you.

I think you shouldn't worry about what the girl thinks either, if she wants you bad enough, she won't care.

I am 19 and dated older girls. When I was 17 I dated a 19 year old and recently just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old. Then again, I am mainly told I look 21-23.

I would just not try to bring the question up. If it does come up, make sure there is a sufficient level of rapport between you two. If you are going to date her for longer than a couple times where you can f-close, older girls want to know that you are mature and aren't insecure about the whole topic.

I always incorporate the word cougar into equation. Very easy to tease them but make sure you are confident yet easy going when you do it.

Good luck!

when you are in the club, just dont bring up the age at all, and if she asks just tell her : What does it matter, its obvious you like me! or something like that.


I generally like older girls aswell, im 22 myself, but when i lived in sweden for a while i mostly played the older girls (24-29)

I got the same problem.. When they ask me how old I am I say the same thing as you.

"How old do you think I am?"

First I tried to say "I'm legal" but they'll blow you & you're crashed & burned. Now I use the technique I already saw in this post:

(18-7)2= 22 !!:) It works but it still sucks to lie.

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I got the opposite problem i want younger.

what Ive figured out so far although not alot, is you have to appeal to their age group. And looking the age you want to get helps.

If a if a 60 year old old fart wants a 30 year old, but he goes out with gray hair and fat and cant walk with arthritis, it aint gonna work.

But maybe, just maybe if he colors his hair, makes an effort to appear younger and get sin shape, he has a prayer.

At your age, it's not a big problem, just be mature. Dont be so needy and horny and act like you are suabe and more worldly.

Unless they already know your age, they should be fine without asking your age.

Thats Bullshit. Just act older?
That formula sucks. Im 25 - 7 = 36.. I F-closed a 42yr old MILF last night and had plenty of shit to talk about... BS

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No not act older, act more mature. Women talk about guys being too immature, that is why they wont date younger, sometimes they do though.

But chances are, unless you look like opie, shes not going to ask you age at all.

People say I look 20-22 generally.

Thanks for the advice guys, the next time around I'll try to handle it smoothly.

I´ll write her again after the next time I game older girls!

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