So there's a girl who has been a very good friend of mine who I finally hooked up with (making out an feeling) over my winter break from school. (I wrote a field report about it if anyone is interested in details called Sushi Date Close or something like that.) She wants me to visit her on my Spring Break from school at her own school, which I am very likely going to do.

I'm hoping to F-close when I go visit her. She's sent me a good amounts of texts and I've sent her quite a few as well - they've been kind of flirty but nothing overtly sexual. Anyone have any advice on how to get the texts more sexual, or what they should include, until I finally do see her? Or should I just keep doing what I'm doing and keep it casually flirtatious?

Any routines for turning the topics to something sexual would be great. If this trip doesn't result in an F-close I'll be a bit disappointed.

Regards,

Ubermenschen

Hey Ubermenschen,

First thing first, remove this idea from your head immediately "If this trip doesn't result in an F-close I'll be a bit disappointed."
Why? Because if this is all your thinking, she's going to figure it out, and I promise you, it doesn't matter how far you travelled too see her, she won't let it happen.

More importantly, this girl, from what I can assess from information provided, is actually interested in you. Obviously she is already comfortable around you since you guys were friends, and the fact that you both displayed sexual interests by making out, means this could be relationship material.

I say the above stuff because this will help in accessing how to approach this situation, because I can guarantee you that she is thinking these things.

Which brings me to my next question? Is this someone you want a relationship with or is it this just for fucking the one time you visit?

Because if you do want a relationship with this girl than its just a matter of remaining consistent and building the relationship you two already have.

If this is just fucking the one time you visit? Than I don't think its worth it because as you mentioned, she a very good friend of yours.

Whatever it is you decide, if you want the f-close on the trip, than continue doing what your doing and you'll be fine. Gauge the situation at all times, if your being flirtatious and she is responding positively, take it further. Anytime she responds positively to your flirtyness, than push the limits.

Hope that helps,

Samex

Thanks man. I'm not sure about attempting a relationship because our schools are eight hours apart, but she has sent a few texts like "oh just old and single studying tonight" or "haha so were in a relationship now? JK" (right after our hook-up). Does that def mean she's interested or is she trying to make sure I want to keep it casual?

She is just gauging the situation. Keep it casual for now. See how you feel about the situation. Don't overwhelm her right now with too much emotional stuff, just keep it jokingly fun and sexy.

When you go to see her, you can decide then if you feel like this girl is relationship material or not.

Samex