Basically, had oneitis for this girl about 3 years ago. Never made a move after serious IOI's..before I ever learned about pick up and basically the reason I started to learn. I got LJBF and have only talked to her once in the last year even though she lives close by.

Tonight she called me so I figured I would set a sexual freme from the start and answered "Hey sexy girl, whats up?" Definetly threw her off a bit, she was just seeing what I was doing tonight. Told her going to a bar and she said to call her before or AFTER if I was bored.

So I called after and she didnt answer but txted me. This was the convo..

Her- So how was (bar name)?
Me- Good but too many dudes. Wanna do something fun?
Her- Like?
Me- Each other
Her- Hahahahahaha no.
Me- I mean really, what else would I be wanting to be doing at 2am? Goodnight kiddo
Her- Lol goodnight

I fucked it up so much in the past(though it was several years ago), not sure if she will ever see me in a new light but I know she used to be attracted. So is this a lost cause or could I ease my way into fucking her with a little effort?

Great transition. I'd keep going that direction. In fact, I'm doing relatively the same thing with one of my lady friends. We just gotta stay away from words like 'nice' 'friend' 'coffee'. Haha. Good luck man, I would say you're on the right track. Keep in touch with what happens next.