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PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 7:04 am 
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Villain: You know... my book cover judgement of you two was SO wrong...
HB's: book cover judgement... what do you mean...
Villain: My first impressions of you two were (insert gay accent) Like Oh My Gawd, you two are the biggest bunch of bitches on this resourt... (return to my normal accent) and your the complete opposite...
HB's: Awww... thanks...
Villain: Yeh, you're just the second bitchiest girls on the resourt... *wink and a cheeky smile*
This is not a neg, it's an insult with a smile. I'd try to turn this into a proper neg, but I don't really use the word bitch when picking up women.

Let's say you were talking about the way they dress instead of their "bitchy" attitudes.

The neg would be something like:

"It's great to meet a woman who isn't bothered by what others think of her style"

See how that's absolutely not an insult? It's kind of a poorly-worded compliment designed to make your target a little self-conscious.

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It almost sounds like she is wanting affection. I would think it would be a good idea to do some kino to let her know your not to cocky or cold, but hey im just a newbie. lol


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I think that negs work really well, as a girl...BUT if it is an insult, then yes, forget it, defenses go up, anyone with any low self esteem will not warm to it and may get upset or think you're an arrogant cock.

Negging is possibly one of the skills I am discovering is hardest to do right and well....some of you sound like you think insulting her with a smile works (and I'm sure it's tried and tested so good if it does work for you), but negging is far more sophisticated way of doing it and I imagine, successful way.

It's a backhanded compliment basically by sounds of it.
I have been negged and find it funny, I know what they're doing (before I read The Game!) and it amuses me or challenges me so I respond...those girls who aren't aware of what the guy is actually doing will respond because it isn't an obvious, smarmy, been done a 100 times before approach. Definitely needs a smile or sparkle in the eye to carry it off, and if you are supremely good looking, then definitely don't just put down lesser looking girls! That's cruel and arrogant and will leave them with that memory for ages, while you move onto the next girl, ego in tact.

If you know you're fit (hot) and you know the girl may not be as fit as you, then neg her with a smile or laugh and she'll like the attention.

I need to get out more, feel like I'm missing out! lmao

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You need to CALIBRATE. Negs are really misunderstood. First, you don't even need them for some girls. Only girls that (in their own mind), are the s@it need them, and, in that case, only one or two. Also, they shouldn't be that intense...just a little comment to disqualify yourself. Nothing that could ever make someone cry. Haha.


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Honestly, if you made a girl cry. I can say with 100% certainty you negged incorrectly. You can't just say 'Wow you talk alot' or whatever, I just said that because thats the last negged I use. You have to say it in a certain playful way, that way she knows you're playing. But really the way the neg's work is almost sub-consciously (if it actually works the way they describe it to, by lowering value instead of just demonstrating your higher value)

Like, I guess I'm a late blossoming good looking guy, so I don't know how attractive I am (by as I get older, more girls open me) But I negged this HB6or7(its all preference when its that low) in class, and she still called me a jerk. Even though she knows I'm playing (at least i think she does). Now calling me a jerk could have been her own shit test that I passed because we have enough rapport where I said something insincere again (but it was an inside joke, so it ended up being sincere). Even though she called me a jerk, she still ... something I dunno
If you've made girls cry with your negging, dear god, work on that. It seems like a lot of the guys in this community use negging as a BACKBONE for attraction. If you look at field reports, you can see that negging is way important, because most of them include how they negged the girl.


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