I think that negs work really well, as a girl...BUT if it is an insult, then yes, forget it, defenses go up, anyone with any low self esteem will not warm to it and may get upset or think you're an arrogant cock.
Negging is possibly one of the skills I am discovering is hardest to do right and well....some of you sound like you think insulting her with a smile works (and I'm sure it's tried and tested so good if it does work for you), but negging is far more sophisticated way of doing it and I imagine, successful way.
It's a backhanded compliment basically by sounds of it.
I have been negged and find it funny, I know what they're doing (before I read The Game!) and it amuses me or challenges me so I respond...those girls who aren't aware of what the guy is actually doing will respond because it isn't an obvious, smarmy, been done a 100 times before approach. Definitely needs a smile or sparkle in the eye to carry it off, and if you are supremely good looking, then definitely don't just put down lesser looking girls! That's cruel and arrogant and will leave them with that memory for ages, while you move onto the next girl, ego in tact.
If you know you're fit (hot) and you know the girl may not be as fit as you, then neg her with a smile or laugh and she'll like the attention.
I need to get out more, feel like I'm missing out! lmao
