Ok, so I don’t think I have heard/read much about this issue. It seems to bear some resemblance toward a shit test, but not much.

So I used to be an AFC/one-itis with the ex. That was about 6 months ago, recently she has been trying to reinitiate things, but I have the game on my side now. I have been scarce and demonstrated value. I have also been trying to be the one control of when/if we hang out or not, not on her terms. Finally I think it broke her and she called me out.

She pulled the, "WHy are you avoiding me, do you want me to stop calling you bla bla bla" and "I have been trying to hangout with you for like the last month and I feel like your annoying me." (Background- I was always the one trying to get her to hangout and such, now that she doesn't have it she is freaking) At this point I didn't want to really continue all of the bullshit so I told her, "your so damn spoiled, I told you I have been busy. Just because your now ready to hang out again doesn’t mean that I can drop everything and cater to you." She got all flustered (I think it was in a good way).

Finally, my question is, did I fuck myself by kind of explaining my tactics. I told her why I wasnt hanging with her, but I made it seem like it was really because I had my own life now. But, im not sure whether she now thinks that im just trying to get back at her because im bitter.

The point of the game is to act certain ways that invoke certain emotions, what happens when somebody might recognize that that is what you are doing.

can the girls really understand the psychology behind it all? And if they can, will they avoid the emotions that are supposed to be invoked. This is a better way to phrase my question.

Sorry if this is overwhelming.

Thanks

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