Love her and really enjoy her company. I've been on and off with her for 3 months and although we had a few dates we grew really close were always happy. She told me she didn't want a boyfriend weeks ago after 2 months of us being like gf/bf. Week later a song played in the bar we work at, it got to the lyrics "girl I know you have issues but I will wait for you" she looked at me and stared loving and so did I. It was so sweet and she kept holding the stare, I thought I still had a chance.

She stopped calling and started ignoring some of my txts and she used to call me everyday for like 2 months. I asked her last week where is this going and tells me she just doesn't know what or who she wants right now. I came on strong and told how "we shouldn't let it go" She said "I'm not letting it go, but this is early still"

At work I thought I would test her and said "it's alright us being friends" and she smiled and said "shuuuut up lol" in a jokey but girly/whiney way.

She seems to care(I catch her looking at me 4 times while I'm next to her as I look around the room) but trys not to show it. She moves away and talks to others like she is playing games. Then I catch her staring at me serious when she sees me txting on my phone, and she was holding her stare like she was jealous. I wasn't txting anyone though.

Work was awkward for us, I wanted her to feel comfortable, she didn't show much interest but was friendly and didn't mind when I put my arm around her. She was in a long relationship before she got with me and is heart broken, she says she wants to be single.

She wrote on facebook the other night "letting go isn't giving up it's accepting some people are not meant for eachother" I didn't know if she was talking about her ex or me because she does write things about him for her friends usually. I really care for her. Can I get her back?

No offense man, but she really doesn't seem overly interested.

If you can play it off like you're really happy at work; Very social and upbeat, without striking up any conversations with her, I think you'd have a chance. Girls love having the upper hand. The second she sees that you're doing great without her, she might just feel that need to get you back into her life.

I'm not saying this is going to work, but I think it will be your best option. Freeze her out. Act like you've moved on and you're doing great without her.

Another thing that happened...nothing major but was interesting.

At the end of work, I waited outside and told her I was waiting for a ride home. She asked me "from who?!?" in a bit of a jealous way. She walked directly up to me and said quietly "come here" and we hugged. The way she said it was like she wanted us to move a little to the right before we hugged, I kinda of turned but we still ended up in the same sort of position. Then our faces touched and she did the mwah thing....

I wished I could get her outside of work. I would have no problem then.