Not sure if this belongs in this category or not, but I wanted to show how I froze out a girl and she's been contacting me none stop ever since. For some background on the girl and how we came to our current situation click the facebook-close-vt91413.html?highlight= I'm not gonna lie, most of it is pretty boring and dry. I just felt the need to include everything so you can see how I came to having to freeze her out.

HB: Good Morning, sorry feel asleep. I go to work at 3am so. Have to be at least in bed by 9:30 to get that energy back. Well let see what time u off? Do u work at Temecula or somewhere in RS?

Me: Wow.. You're in bed by 9:30 to be at work by 3am? I work in San Diego and have to be UP by 4:30 so in bed by 8:30 and I'm still usually tired! Anyway, I'm not the one with the crazy nursing schedule. I'm always off on the weekends unless I'm on a business trip so...

HB: So u want to talk ?here's my #

Me: I thought we were already talking... You aren't trying to get my number so you can text me naughty pics of you in sexy lingerie are you?

HB: Ha,ha that's right

Me: Then I'm not sure I want you to have my number then... I practice abstinence until I get married and sexual thoughts may lead me to break that...

HB: I like that!!!me too

Me: Copy cat!

HB: That's means no kissing , only hugs and no touching! Dang then how I'm gonna massage you???oh I know I'll wave my magic wand lol:-))

Me: Massages aren't sexual... Unless your dirty mind was thinking of a sensual massage....

The conversation continued on from here. She asked what my job was and even though that information can be found on my Facebook profile, I told her I was a professional balloon animal maker and part time pencil sharpener tester. Then negged her for making fun of my occupation.

I later texted her and she had no idea who I was, so I negged her again for giving out her number to random guys. Then she called me and before the conversation could even get started, I told her I was busy and needed to call her back.

I then immediately got another FB message saying that I had a very nice voice.

HB: Very nice voice. And yeah thanks for taking my call.

Me: Now who's flirting?

HB: I don't know?

Me: You obviously are

HB: O.k I'll leave u alone

Me: Lmao! If you say so.

HB: There goes 'ur b-day present (6:50pm)

Me: Lmao! I guess I'm the one that's starting to piss you off. (she made a post to her FB saying "ur really starting to piss me off") (6:53pm)

HB: Yeah...ur such a aghhhhh (6:56pm the freezing begins)

HB: You love to joke around hah? (7:47pm)

Me: Yep... I thought you could take a joke, but I guess I was wrong... (8:21pm)

HB: I'm just confused with you (8:44pm)
And I don't know u well yet

Me: What are you confused about? (8:44pm)

HB: The way u text me (8:48pm)

Me: What about it? (8:49pm)

(at this point she calls again and I send her straight to voice mail)

HB: I'm driving can't text (8:51pm)

Me: I'm eating.. can't talk (8:52pm)

At 9:11pm she calls again and I don't answer. She leaves a voice mail. "Pick up, pick up, pick up, pick up, pick up, pick up... Call me back please... Ummm.. ok... bye"

HB: Have a wonderful day ) (the next day 9:02am)

At this point, I still haven't responded to her. I'm not even sure if I ever will. She doesn't know it yet, but she's on time out and will have to make it up to me for giving me her attitude. ESPECIALLY since we haven't even met yet.

Like I said, it's pretty boring stuff, but maybe someone can learn something from it.

all i have to say is

well done lol

dueces
Fender43

lol nice, i like the part about pencil sharpener tester and you cant just keep dodging her calls forever shell think ur a weirdo... in my opinion id let her call me and answer for a few seconds each time untill she understands she gotta do what you want for more phone time, maybe even say youve been bad or meen to me or whatever, you only get 2 minutes today with me on the phone and put on a timer when she calls. just my opinion, works great in case your wondering!

hope you dont mind if i use your pencil sharpener tester thats very funny

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No Tomorrow

I don't know about you, but if a woman gives me her attitude before we've even met, there is something wrong. If she's this way before we've met, imagine how she'd be after she's known me. She's lucky she's being put on time out. I'm thinking I should cut her off all together. I have options. I could careless about her thinking anything of me, let alone weird.

Glad you liked the pencil sharpener tester thing though. I have used it many times when a woman asks me what I do for work. My job is not to qualify myself to her so this works beautifully. The neg always follows because they never take it seriously.

Do you end up telling her what you do for a living as to not come across that you're hiding anything?

I eventually end up telling her at some point, but never when she initially asks. I've gone weeks without telling a girl anything about my occupation. It's a hoop she wants me to jump through and I'm no dancing monkey. She wants me to qualify myself to her and this is the opposite of what I want. It also gives me the mystery effect.

So, the last message I sent to this girl was "I'm eating, can't talk". Afterwards, she calls again and leaves a voicemail. I don't bother calling her back. The next day, I get a message from her say "Have a nice day". I don't reply back.

Which brings us today. After not calling, texting, contacting this chick in anyway possible, she is still interested.

Just got a message from her title is "Wussup stranger" message is "hey stranger". I replied back to her "Hey you... figure things out yet"

Not gonna continue to post things from this chick on here. Just wanted everyone to see that the freeze does work, so don't be afraid to use it thinking you may lose the girl. No one will respect you if you don't respect yourself. Take care of you first, the rest will follow!

Nicely done. Respect!