So I am supposed to be writing my english essay right now but I seriously can not be bothered. I do, however, have a pressing question which continues to pop up in High School game.

What do you do when a girl tries to tell you her problems? Loss of a family member, relationship problems, problems with friends, etc. Becoming a girls therapist is a direct root to the LJBF zone which is somewhere we all DON'T want to be. But you can't very well not listen and not give advice because if you do you will sound like an actual asshole. This occurs when I am gaming a girl and they pop on MSN with their problems which they want to share. What do you do when this happens? How should you react?

Cheers guys, you are the support team.


- Memento

"What am I? Your therapist? Not. Tell you what, get over here and spend some quality time with me."

You can comfort without going into the LJBF zone. but of course without applying basic attraction building and kino along with a few negs falling into LJBF is inevitable. Even though what happened to her may put her under stress you can also use this to set up a meet.
PUA: "I can't talk to you right now I'm going _____. I'll be busy until __. Come by if your still worried about it and we can watch a movie or something to get your mind off it."

When she comes by and wants to talk (she will) tell her you suggested the movie b/c :
*"I honestly can't relate to what your going through"
*"Ever since ___ (event in your life)__ I don't like talking bout _(whatever her problem is)_ b/c it brings up to many mixed emotions." -just relate.
*"You need to get your mind off of it. IT'S THAT SIMPLE."- be persistent
*"Your being way too emotional for me right now. but your a girl so i understand." -neg that makes you not loose sensitivity.

If you do your job right as a PUA after that then your golden. You'll make her laugh at your lines and take her mind of the problem she had. You can even kiss close this scenario b/c as long as your the one that made her feel better, you built attraction by DHV. In her mind she'll associate that she had a good time and YOU made her feel better.

I do warn though by opening up to the type of girl that cries on your shoulder a lot you might invite drama upon yourself. Or if attraction builds and she is in a depression she may cling to you more and harbor jealousy issues (which will scare off other girls when not taken care of)

_________________
**Wing It**

I look at this situation as an opportunity. Def risk involved with falling into the "therapist" category. We will be cautious and make sure you avoid this.

So here is the good news. Psychologically when people go through a very very hard time in their life for example grand parent dies or something. Whoever is there to endure that terrible time with that person will be connected at an entire new level. Talk about comfort & trust building gold mine! Here you go. Its also just a really cool thing to do for someone.

I agree though if she wants to tell you about her x-boyfriend drama or girl drama....bla, bla, bla. Avoid that at all cost.