So last night I was out at a party and me and a few of the girl went outside cause of the noise. Anyways after about half an hour it was getting pretty chilly. One of the girls asked for my jumper? And then one of the others didn't have shoes so she borrowed mine, and there am I freezing my arse off.

Was giving my stuff away the right move to do and if not what should I say instead, (something funny and smart).

Cheers,

T

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Tommy C

giving it away for nothing is AFC unless you're already in the friend zone.

I agree with the other PUA. If your not gameing the girl then it doesn't matter you were just being a nice guy and man by helping her. I would have to. But if you like her more then I would of asked for a kiss in exchange for my stuff. Hope this helps out.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"

nah, neither were the target. Sounds good. Thanks for the help.

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Tommy C

Fuck that. If I'm not cold, then fine, I'll LEND my jacket and let it be known that I'm taking it back when the temp drops, or if she misbehaves. If she's just a friend, then I can bust her harder for it without her getting pissy, so I'm gonna take advantage of that to display my Alphaness.

If other people are around and watch you slowly taking off clothes to give to these girls that aren't doing anything for you, your social proof just fell through the floor. If no one is around, then who cares, still do it my way, because that way you set up the context of you being dominant and Alpha. Soon as you let a girl know that she is in charge, you're never getting control back and now any situation you are in with that girl around, you're Beta and you're sarging potential is hindered. If you make her Beta, then she's a pivot and anyone around can see who's the dominant figure and so they will respect you more.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

You gave one girl your jacket and another your shoes......????
And then you were cold...

You deserved to be cold. I am a nice guy also but not at the expense of myself.

I would have offered the warmth of my body, with both wrapped in my arms.

Your shoes...... man, friend or not, total AFC.

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