What's the best way to handle that? What do you do if she is very apologetic, or hasn't talked to you at all?

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OK, since no one cared to help(lol), I ran into the girl who blurred me this past weekend. I didn't look at her at all. She then spoke up and said "Swede, I have to apologize about this weekend. My crazy sister is in town and I have to watch her.” Blah, blah, something about how her sister has 3 kids w/ 3 different last names, just got out of rehab, and so she is keeping an eye on her from doing anything stupid. She told me that this would be happening sometime soon.

So I thought “fair enough”, but I still didn’t understand why she didn’t call me that night to tell me about it. She was remorseful but also said that her sister will be staying with her for a while. I’m not worried; no “oneitis” w/ this chic at all. Later on, though, she talked to me as usual. I believe that she is still interested in me.

I’m going to keep gaming her. I’m still trying to avoid the LJBF zone for now as well. If not, then I can always go out with her and use her for a pivot, which is always nice about making female friends who like to go out.

What do you think?

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when they blow you off, and you still are interested, you have to show that her actions meant nothing to you and that you are a man who has options.

(kinda like when you're gaming a chick at a club and she says "oh I gotta go run to the bathroom, I'll be back" .. then you dont just wait up for her, you go and open other sets so that when she sees you talking with other women and having a good time - the jealousy / pre-selection trigger comes in)

Funny you mention this as I saw this HB I was gaming prior to learning the material. I did ok, but I felt that I did mess up something, and reconfirmed this once I read the material. It was at the football game (college) and she was sitting by herself and I was walking down with friends on the way out. I smiled and said Hi to her, and she motioned for me to come talk to her saying "come here". I told her... "I can't, I have to stay with my friends, you have my number, you can call."

I felt good walking off letting her pretty much know she meant absolutely nothing to me. She was alone and by herself, and I'm out hanging with cool friends. That was like priceless and I couldn't have scripted that shit any better. Whether she calls or not isn't the point. The point is what was said non-verbally and was communicated in-between the lines.

Thanks, sandman. I guess i just had a brain fart on this one. It's like the answer was obvious and I just didn't get it. Much appreciated!

Saqchek, that shit is golden. I love when stuff works out like that. Like "I couldn't have even scripted that". Great position to be in!

Good stuff, guys. Thanks again.

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