*** This tip is aimed more towards the shy girl type BUT it may be used on any personality type ***

Ok, so you're chatting to the HB and having a laugh with her. She's responding well to teasing, kino, some C+F, some slight negs and great conversation. She's smiling and laughing with you.

In your mind you're telling yourself 'This is going great! Oh crap... I think it's time to kiss her...!'

What do you do now?

Here's what:

Ask her if she's adventurous:
HB: (90% of the time she'll respond with:) Yeah, I guess...

Ask her if she's fun:
HB: Yes

Ask her if she's spontaneous:
HB: I suppose so...

YOU: Well then, prove it!

The chances she'll prove it are small, she might respond with something like:

HB: Um... I dunno...

If this happens, then it's going perfectly to plan! 100% A-OK!

Now, neg her for being 'boring' or use 'Wow, you're no fun at all are you?!' and smile while saying this. Now it's your turn...

YOU: Ok then, you ask me what I've just asked you

HB: Ok, are you adventurous?
YOU: Yes! (smile)

HB: Are you fun?
YOU: Of course I am!

HB: Are you spontaneous?
YOU: Definately!

YOU: Now, you gonna ask me to prove it or what?!
HB: Ok, prove it!

Now, hold out your hand with palm facing upwards. The majority of the time she'll put hers in yours. If not, try again.

Now what you do is lead and isolate her, while holding her hand, to a quiet place of the pub/club/bar.

Get her close to you:

YOU: You asked me if I was fun, adventurous and spontaneous... yeah?
HB: Yeah!
YOU: Ok, well then, lean closer...

She should lean in.

YOU: Closer!

She leans in more... When her face is about 4/5 inches away from yours...

Go for the kiss straight off.

She can't blame you for anything because SHE asked YOU were you SPONTANEOUS, FUN, and ADVENTUROUS! She has also asked you to PROVE IT! You've lead her to a quiet place (ADVENTUROUS), you're laughing and joking with her (FUN) and you've kissed her (SPONTANEOUS). That's proof enough for me...

How can she argue with that?!



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You have been talking to this girl, and now feel chances to kiss her.
But you are affraid, what if she reject you... i am affraid... until i developped this routine.

You have been talking with this girl, you have builded a bit physical contact thought kino. Now you got couple ioi's.
Get 3 ioi's at least, thats a golden rule.

Now you prepare yourself for the kiss.
Give her EC and smile, then look away.
Then look again, hold EC with her, get closer, but then turn your face away.

Now you will do the same again, get close, but now you lift your head, so your lips is at the same level as her nose.
Get closer, if she lift her head for reaching your lips, you are in.

So far i've always been in.

But, when she lift her head for making her lips reach the level your yours(which means you are in), get closer to her nose, and bite it(it's very sensitiv, dont bite hard)
Just for showing some more push and pull.


Now you know she is in for the kiss.

Give her a hug, and start sucking her neck.
Then go for the ears, and then the lips.

BAM!

The good thing with this tactis is that you test her too see if she is ready for the kiss. And you are doing some push and pull which will make her chase you.




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One of the best ways on how to kiss a girl is to tease her. When you have established a good rapport with her during your conversation and you feel you want to kiss her already, ask how good of a kisser she is. This can catch her off guard and tell you she doesn’t know. When you get that answer, lean over, put your hands on her chin, tell her “let’s find out” and kiss her.
This works really well because you get to surprise her and there is very little room for refusal since you are having such a good time talking to each other.



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During the conversation, try to find ways to touch her. Body contact usually ends up to you kissing her. When you see she’s wearing a fancy bracelet or a watch, tell her how lovely it looks and then reach over and take her hand. Don’t break the contact and continue talking to her about it. Then look into her eyes and, without letting go of her hand, kiss her. Remember to make sure first that she doesn’t pull her hand away when you get it.
Or you can try letting her know how beautiful her hair is. When you do that, run your fingers through it. She will most certainly appreciate it. Once you’re through combing through her hair, rest your hands on her face. Touch her gently, look into her eyes and lean over for a kiss.




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It’s always advised to wear perfume or cologne when going out and meeting women because it makes you more approachable and pleasant to be with. But did you know that wearing perfume can also help you kiss close? Yes, you can.
If you can wait until she recognizes how good your perfume smells, that would be the perfect opportunity to ask her to lean over your neck and smell you. Then compliment how good she smells. Do the same and smell her neck. Breathe into hers then slowly take it up until you are very close to her face. Hold eye contact for a few while then slowly lean over for the kiss.









they are not mine- but i have used them and they are effective - will add more
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