It took her about an hour of convincing to let me sleep with her. At 4:40 we ended up getting to sleep. Nothing happened... Where should I go from here... should I not have pushed her that far into letting me sleep with her... Any good cat / mouse string theories / suggestions for me? My friend says I'm sticking onto her way too much... however i am constantly negging her... ignoring her etc. Almost every time I see her I get a hug out of her...

<- Would be grateful for any suggestions thanks..

First rule is never beg for anything. If it took you an hour to have her sleep with you without sex, imagine how much time you'd have to spend convincing her to have sex with you. You'd be better off spending that time showing her why you're the shit and how much food you have on your plate (so to speak). Dude don't be afraid to escalate with her, but always on your terms and not hers.

If you are in the same bed as her, and she has agreed to it, then I recon she must have at least thought that something MIGHT happen.

Sounds like you did well pursuading her to stay the night, what you need to do then is to get her all wound up so that she won't resist any moves you make.

I suggest just hugging then stroking her back or tummy, breathe on her neck and other stuff like this. I doubt she would stop you doing it, because she's already in bed with you.

If you do this for a while, she will definately start to get all hot and up for it - you just need to wait for the signals from her then escalate it. Signals might be: Her getting hot, heavy breathing, arching back, pushing against you etc) Then make a bold move eg feel her tits or whatever and you're in there.

NOTE: This process might take a while, just keep at it.

This has been used to great success - don't worry I think you have done the hardest part - getting her into bed. Good luck and have fun.

PB