I have just been on the first date with this HB10, she look totally stunning and used to be an air-stewardess

She has a very amazing life, she travel around alot, mountain climbing, and skydiving and stuff like that, she is super adventurous and independent so she was like in a total different league than i am, lifestyle-wise not money-wise or something like that

I always consider myself to have very good inner game and general game so i was able to hold my ground with her on the first date but dont think my game is up at this level yet, and I might lose out in the long run. So I need professional help on how to generally deal with situation where you are not on par with the girl (help me improve my inner game some more) and any tactic that might help work out on her

Regards guys

I don't consider myself a PUA. But here's how I deal with thinking about super sexy women.

No matter how sexy they are its still all in your head. Think about it. A female horse is so amazingly hot to a male horse. But to us they are repulsive sexually (for most of us). The same with a female lobster. You think human females have something godly that no other creature has? That perfect 10 is repulsive to any other animal because the wiring of their brain is different. Hell, even different human races have different ideas of what's sexy. haven't you had a friend who didn't have the same taste as you. Its all in your head no matter how you look at it. Try this. Find the sexiest looking female face you can on the internet. Then look at it upside down. That's how sexy it really is once your brain wiring is deprogrammed.

I don't like the HB rating system. It puts hot women on a pedestal. Women are women. If they are a little harder to get because they are hot or think they are hot, then neg them, play harder, whatever. But making them out to be a 9 or a 10 makes them seem unattainable.

you can also picture her taking a dump, picking her nose, farting. I try to find imperfections in their features or figure as soon as I can. I want to get over that infatuation stage instantly if I can. Rather than overlook the little things, i focus on them. That way I realize that she is no better than anyone else, and so has no power over me.

Then you are free to focus on winning the game. Winning that lobster....

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Hey man thanks for your very well written reply.

I totally agree on how we should not be affected by a women look, it has never been the problem of my game.

This girl is very gorgeous but she is not the most I have ever seen, but she is the only one who has ever busted my ball and make me feel inferior to her, not because of her look again but more of her lifestyle, so that is the main problem.

Thanks for the tip on negging and playing hard to get, i guess that's how the game should be played

Regards

I appreciate your gratitude for my post. But I didn't really say anything about negging. I think negging can work well when you first meet an HB. But later I imagine it has more to do with you being aloof and having other things going on in your life. You wanna convey the impression that you can fulfill this woman's fantasies but that you are not going to put too much energy into it because you have other things and other women in your life. This HB is just one of many options. The more that becomes your actual reality the better you are able to have the balls to say and do funny and sexy things. Because you really don't care that much about this one girl. If she plays too hard to get you will drop her in an instant because they are a dime a dozen. At the same time if she is a good girl and plays along then you will reward her with your attention to a certain degree. The more you get to know her, its not about negging but just acting like she is just a person. Don't suck up to her like other guys. Act like she is super ordinary. But then suprise her with something funny and sexy out of the blue that turns her on (hopefully). I am not an expert but this is what I think.

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When pretending not to care what she thinks becomes really not caring what any of them think...that day I will be a PUA.