Before I graduated I had a problem at high school dances that drove me crazy in
the moment, and it had a simple trick that could of helped. My problem was that
no matter how much fun or how much me an my date touched I couldn't get an
intimate dance in the night (a slow dance where you are completely against each
other) I must of thought at the time it would make things more serious an have a
better chance of achieving sex. But even though it is so easy of a move an people
most likely do it without even thinking, it was a eureka moment for me. No one
else probably holds slow dancing as importantly as I did but oh well why not just
post it just in-case.


This is so simple its senile, from the very first moment when about to dance just
jump forward really close an grab her so she thinks that is just how you slow
dance. after the first awkward one it would just get more comfortable as you go.


Then again sometimes she is the really enthusiastic one an would jump quickly
before you can react to the innocent 11 inch distant slow dance position. Just at
the start of the set up for it just grab her hand off your sholder an say "You cant
start it like every one else does, Do a spin first! (with a playful tone)" as she is
comming around from a full rotation just take a step forward, rap her hand you
are still holder around your sholders an assume the closer dance sequence.