doing pretty well at opening sets and #closing. The attraction phase is what i think i need to work on now.

My friend invited me to a house party. When i showed up there were 2 guys and 2 girls. One guy was playing video games the whole night, while my friend who invited me over was being a friendly host and he is very talkative guy, i think he over does it actually.

I didn't know what to do because i was out of my element, one guy was already pulling the i don't care role, while the other guy was the high energy type guy. I felt i needed to be somewhere in the middle. Another HB ended up coming over to even the ratio. Since I was out of my element, I kind of resorted to my old AFC ways, by asking them questions, kept getting responses that werent going anywhere. I tried pulling a couple strategies i learned from here but it just wasn't clicking. What would you guys do?

What would you guys do?

Have skill? This is the most elementary situation. Work on anything you clearly havent a clue, just my opinion.

And attraction comes before #close so if you havent attracted and she gives you her number shes either desperate sympathetic or wants to be your friend.

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What a title!

Man, in that situation you should have been the center of attention, having the guys all listening to you instead of the other guy and having the girls circled around you hanging on every word. You should have been able to build attraction in all three, number closed all three, and possibly kiss closed at least one. Especially considering it sounds like those girls were bored. You just have to practice and become SMOOTH.

so you got the high-strong, one too many red bull's guy, and the downer, i just wanna sit and play xbox when all these pretty girls are around guy. why dont you be the guy who is in between. this means you sit, but you interact with people (this is called talking) not interact with remotes...

LOL. I love that.